I’m so sick and tired of men saying they’re afraid to date me because I’m intimidating?? What a lame excuse, step the fuck up! (I’m really a sensitive soft boy 🥺)
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udonomii
Honestly, over the years, I’ve realized that it means they’re aware they’d lose access the moment they did anything remotely beneath your value. You may present as being firm about yourself (in a healthy way; I’m guessing). Most guys I’ve dealt with like this usually ended up being losers because they were simply fucking around. Now I’m only approached if they’re either bold enough and/or genuinely interested. 🫂
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reese
Can relate. I get hit with the same line constantly 🥲
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jcp
A tattoed hunk ? Damn. Very hot.
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aranha
If the feel intimidated, they’re not for you. Move on. The fact you’re having this issue is actually great news, because it helps you being discerning. When you are great, only very few will be a true match. Don’t look for anyone. The right dream lover will be drawn towards you. Allow the magnetism and surrender to it.
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kings_world
Just recently happened to me and yeah it’s funky
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