How would you feel like if a transman came to flirt with you? I feel like a fear of not being seen as a man holds me back a lot from going up to interesting people. How do other transmen cope with this?
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greenroomgeek
Assuming this is back when I was single, I guess it depends on whether he was cute or not. A cute dude is a cute dude regardless of what’s going on between his legs. I did once hit up a cute trans guy on Grindr but he never responded so I guess he didn’t think I was as cute as I thought he was 🤷‍♂️
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joshuae
I know your question is directed to the trans community, but from my perspective, I don’t care whether you’re cis or trans, a guy flirting with me is a huge compliment, and if I also found him cute, it’s not an issue.
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