“In short this power is exercised rather than possessed; it is not...

“In short this power is exercised rather than possessed; it is not the ‘privilege’, acquired or preserved, of the dominant class, but the overall effect of its strategic positions— an effect that is manifested and sometimes extended by the position of those who are dominated” (Foucault, 1975/1995, 26-27).

dimis

My therapist gave me a question to ask when I’m considering someone: “What could exist because of our union that wouldn’t exist without us?” If the answer points to growth and transformation, and I feel it too he might be worth exploring 🖤 Just reflecting, huh

marc_punkt

new style, no filter 💚 Fade on the sides, not much left up top. Could've buzzed the whole thing. My barber kept it anyway. And honestly? I like it. A lot of guys have a complicated relationship with thinning hair. I stopped fighting it and started finding it hot. Thinning hair is hot. That's the post. Keep this or buzz it next time? Tell me. 💚

arche-noah

At first glance, it looks like a really interesting app with lots of very attractive guys… but I just can’t figure out how it works 🤔 There’s no communication at all… all the activity ends with views and likes.

emiliush

Dating culture has somehow made nonchalance aspirational. Don’t text too much. Don’t seem too interested. Keep your options open. Be chill. Unfortunately, I hate what-ifs more than I fear looking interested. I wrote about dating fatigue, closing doors without knowing what was behind them, and the possibilities we keep alive just because nobody has disproved them yet. Featuring old Marina & The Diamonds, who probably should not have been entrusted with my romantic philosophy. Are you more afraid of caring too much, or wondering what would’ve happened if you had?

itzky

I’m alcolhol free for more than three months now. I’m proud af and feel great! Challenging for me is not the graving but to fill the place with something different. And also on the other hand to find my place amongst drinking friends or at parties. Not that i have no fun but drunk people are not. With what did you guys replace the fog of the booze? And how your friendship relations and nightlife changed?