I think the healthiest thing you can do when you don’t feel attractive, nor chosen, nor seen. To stop looking for validation externally in the forms of complains towards dating, society, life. I see it in the community when people make comments about how people behave in dating apps, or how people are in general. And I find it kind of funny. We have such easy to hurt egos that when someone says no we hide in a corner and shrink ourselves, blaming the world. Hahaha… I think once you accept no one owes you presence, love, security, nor being chosen you truly become free.