Going on a second date. First date we clicked mentally. We like a lot of the same things. But physically he’s not really my type (not bad looking though) but I want to give it a chance. Yes looking for a bf. Can it grow? Thoughts?
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Honestly? Yes but depends. I've been in a loving relationship without him being my type physically. But I also only fall in love with personality. That's why I can't do one night stands. Accept people as they are right now and not the potential you might see. That also goes for you... Meaning that you'll probably yearn for someone who attracts you physically. Maybe that can change but maybe it can't. I would be open but also mindful? Idk. Humans are complicated 😂
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theartfulroger
If it works that’s great, if it doesn’t then move on. Maybe you gain a friend rather than a boyfriend. Sometimes that’s even better.
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g.erardo
@vitra i think both are important to me, so only physical attraction doesn’t do it for me. I did one night stands but after a while I got bored, I need connection. Yes we are complicated 😅Let’s see how this goes…
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benjiwild
Chemistry and culture is more important. ❤️
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itzky
What do you like about him physically? The smile, the face, hair, eyes, whatever …
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