be honest, you are on collective for: a) friends b) the views c) dates d) validation e) Tumblr meets Grindr vibes f) no idea
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will.ali
A. but I feel like there aren’t many of us here 😂
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millan
B, if ‘the views’ = reading everyone else’s shady opinions 😂
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ike_m_
F… I’m eternally confused about the point of this app
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danny_b
G) all of the above
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xavier_
Not to feel alone
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guel
@ike_m_ you are not alone in that quest
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guel
@danny_b why just one when you can have them all, right 😉
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guel
@xavier_ I hope you find here what you are looking for 🤞🏼
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biscuit
Online Queer Community. Friends of all kinds and epically the kind to make out with 😉
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bps
A and C
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shuey
Validation 😭😭😭
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jahmargra
Definitely A & F but can we define what B is so I can be more precise. 😅
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jahmargra
Also if I can add a little extra: motives and uses definitely feel unclear but I definitely feel like at the end of the day it does feel like a safe outpost for us on the Wild Wild West that is the internet.
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kulbs
Some A but more other - with entertainment, connection and community.
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guel
@jahmargra you know what I mean by the views 😉
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jahmargra
@guel 👀 😅 so then yes the views to 🤷🏿‍♂️
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egosumeric
Mostly A… little bit of F because the openness to A has been eh. 😂
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guel
@egosumeric I know! in the beginning I was very enthusiastic with the perspective of making new friends but it’s not going to happen 😂
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beaubardo
I haven’t quite figured that out yet
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beaubardo
@guel I will say it’s a decent place to have a nice chat. But there are already options for that.
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guel
@beaubardo there are a lot of other apps to date and have sex. The premise here was a bit different — or so I thought
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A & C. But you all are playing around, barely make conversation.
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nmazz
All the above? A “collective” community of gay men being gay men without the pressure of preconceived expectations.
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guel
@nmazz the premise was/is good. It’s only a pity, I think, that must users are not really interested in interacting with at least their local pairs but it’s what it’s
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nmazz
@guel I could see that. The dilemma of most of these apps is intention whether it’s honesty in expectations of false hope. This app is not big in my area. But when you have a free forum outlet that puts an endless amount of people in front of each other globally (gay men) how do you determine what the goal of app is? Or the goal/ intention of the user? That’s life babe ❤️ wish you the best and happy pride!
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guel
@nmazz true! Have a great time too! 🌈
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paulitus
Tumblr meets Grindr vibes, how come? lol
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flings abroad
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guel
@grabari it’s definitely a thing here
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casbahmike
A, B, F, and OTHER. I am here for the posts that make me think and that show me things I’ve not seen before (art, design, architecture…). Also here just to pass time. By “the views” i mean all the interesting images, including views of landscapes, works of art, building interiors and exteriors, etc. If I’m honest, also d. Isn’t the need for validation why we post anywhere online. But for me this isn’t really a good platform for validation. I don’t get a lot of feedback on my posts.
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A, but I do enjoy the feed sometimes 👀
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