Any tips on bottoming without having to take ages with foreplay before...

rodrifelix99 1 year

Any tips on bottoming without having to take ages with foreplay before actually starting something without discomfort?

rodrifelix99

Omg @jbdr should I be worried? Maybe I have something like that too idk gonna have a long therapy session all about my hole I guess

1 year

rodrifelix99

@jbdr Gonna start my bottoming journey too hahahaha power bottom is the goal for sure

1 year

quebecossais

Breathe all the air in your lungs out right before it goes in. Also clench/tense your butt for say 10 seconds, then release, this will automatically make the sphincter relax for a few moments and you can let it in. Also understand what angles work right for your body. Also try clearing your mind of whatever anxieties you might be feeling which will help you relax - having a good connection with the top, communication and experience all help with that. Eventually you build a mind-body connection when you are able to think, “I want to relax my butt” and you know what muscles to relax using your brain. And poppers can also help a lot.

1 year

rodrifelix99

Thank you @quebecossais, you’re doing gods work over here hahaha 🫶

1 year

chrisgardener

1. Use decent lube, and find one you like and normalise taking your own lube as a bttm when you go meet a guy, 2. Position is everything, depending on his size and shape this will change every time with each new guy, 3. Communication, talk to each other tell them what you want take it slow if it feels good tell them, too much, pause take a breath and change it up in a new position

1 year

quebecossais

@rodrifelix99 and then one day you’ll figure out double penetration all by yourself… With two hung daddies

1 year

rodrifelix99

@quebecossais hahahaha for now I’ll enjoy being tight. One day maybe I’ll be able to level up

1 year

jbdr

@chrisgardener agree with this! Silicone lube works better for me

1 year

rodrifelix99

@@chrisgardener do you recommend those anal easy slide lubes or it’s just a ripoff and any silicone lube is fine?

1 year

chrisgardener

@rodrifelix99 my personal favourite is one called lubido it’s aloe infused water based they do little pocket size bottles as well great for taking out with you

1 year

rodrifelix99

@chlopiecy kinky. But for real, with some men we just gotta accept it’s gonna hurt

1 year

rodrifelix99

I’m so confused hahaha you like the discomfort?

1 year

carrie_brad.shar

@chlopiecy I know what you mean, it always hurts at the first time going in for me, but then after nothing.

1 year

rodrifelix99

@carrie_brad.shar thank you so much, I’ll put that into work tonight!

1 year

anup

@cal - share your tips bro

1 year

rodrifelix99

@carrie_brad.shar don’t lose hope, that’s why god created the double sided dildo

1 year

hidden

take your time, listen to your body, make sure to get in touch with what you want - and don’t want, breath deeply, and remember that light pain might come before the pleasure - don’t push through the pain ofc - lastly: enjoy ✨

1 year

rodrifelix99

@halfpersianboy thank you so much 🫶

1 year

hidden

@rodrifelix99 you‘re welcome 🤗🫶🏼

1 year