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Oh I don’t even give them that long! I’ve learned if you can’t respond within 2 days you’re getting unmatched with. Like we’re all on our phones so I think a timely response is like the bare minimum

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jonauk

@cjudd I did put a note before matching with me saying exactly that but they still do it haha or they start a convo and then vanish hahaha 🤣 and I see it as if you can’t reply soon, you’re not interested so yeah unmatched 😭

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Honestly that’s such a good idea that I may need to steal that haha I’ve also found guys will say something to the effect of “let’s plan a date rather then be pen pals” and they’re always the ones who take forever to respond after asking them out 🙄😭

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jonauk

@cjudd classic that one haha

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aranha

Because they are too busy hooking up on Grindr and Sniffies for meetings that often end up not happening…

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jonauk

@aranha that’s true as well hehe

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thegreatmichal

Try putting effort into structuring a sentence intended to stimulate a conversation (including questions), only to get one word responses 🤬.

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jonauk

@thegreatmichal yep or no answer at all hahah

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lafi

In my defense, I dont ever have notifications on dating apps and then I legit go 3 days without opening one 😭 even then, sometimes I respond to someone within minutes and they never reply again

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