what is your relationship with masculinity? is it an ideal or a wound?
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i like my soft kind of masculinity
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olegs
Difficult - I guess that is the most appropriate word in my case
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tomdcamp
I tend to be seen as masculine, and it’s helpful for my job.
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djallel
It complicated cause i like to give a masculine sex appeal , in a puppy way. But again I love the girls and queening out so… I try to be either the more or other depending on contexte but not always u can totally control it
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ericv
Confusing. Masculinity is a social construct that was imposed on me and harmed me. However I do not hate it. I personally feel in between. Sometimes I wonder if masculinity are related to things we do and like or innate.
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yocko
I am pretty masculine, just in my being. But I am totally in love with that super natural big South American masculinity. I find that so sexy in men.
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xserg
Coming of age my performance of masculinity was heavily influenced by adhering to family/cultural expectations. As an adult, I enjoy masculinity in verbal, bro play, musk and emotional intimacy
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christopherchou
Dude 😭 I feel like I don’t meet those conventional standards but I’m a tough cookie for different reasons—but I’m comfortable with myself and want to surround myself with others who are too 🥹
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vtodorov
It is a social construct ✨
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It’s a tool in the spectrum of what I can be
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