I'm 46 which means I'm dead to most gay men. That’s ok 😛
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roast.rescue.repeat
There’s kind of a power in that though, right? I’m 46 in a couple of weeks and am pretty much the happiest and most fulfilled I’ve ever been 🙌
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xandermar
Hahaha! I’m 41 and think the same thing 😆
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dusk
I never felt etarism/ageism from the queer community before quite recently. I find age based search totally fine. But ruling people out of romance/friendship just based on them not being “young enough” is harsh for me. People rely on such terrible ways of dismissing someone such as stalling and ghosting, but they could just say “you are not my type” or “I’m not interested in you in that way”, and that would be totally fine to me, I wouldn’t argue against that. In fact, I would never argue in favor of someone liking me, it sounds so debasing.
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christopherchou
Bro you are so foineeee & youthful as ever :))))
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gggabriel
@dusk this is why I say it’s ok. What can I do 🤷🏽
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alanoftheworld
Im hearing this! I’m single after 16 years and in my early 50’s. But I much prefer the feeling I have of knowing who I am, being comfortable in my own skin and also being fitter and stronger than I’ve ever been!
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ericv
Boi you are handsome and alive!
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bps
It’s a powerful place you’re in. Enjoy it. 🙌🏼
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gggabriel
@ericv definitely was not complaining 😄 just stating a fact. I’m very much alive yes
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ericv
@gggabriel yes you are, I am glad you are proud of you
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ericv
You make a good point. I myself have become a daddy😂 I was once looking for older men
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40 here! Love the comments ❤️
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theartfulroger
@alanoftheworld I was 48 when I left my ex, was the best decision ever. Having a second chance later in life gives you a whole new angle on who you are, what you can achieve and an opportunity to make new lasting friendships. Enjoy the exciting future before you!
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statmanthom
I’m turning 46 next week and I await my lavish funeral 😜
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