Post by HiC

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My therapist gave me a question to ask when I’m considering someone: “What could exist because of our union that wouldn’t exist without us?” If the answer points to growth and transformation, and I feel it too he might be worth exploring 🖤 Just reflecting, huh

Dating culture has somehow made nonchalance aspirational. Don’t text too much. Don’t seem too interested. Keep your options open. Be chill. Unfortunately, I hate what-ifs more than I fear looking interested. I wrote about dating fatigue, closing doors without knowing what was behind them, and the possibilities we keep alive just because nobody has disproved them yet. Featuring old Marina & The Diamonds, who probably should not have been entrusted with my romantic philosophy. Are you more afraid of caring too much, or wondering what would’ve happened if you had?

N@zis are winning the elections here in Germany so where should I move to next lol

I’m alcolhol free for more than three months now. I’m proud af and feel great! Challenging for me is not the graving but to fill the place with something different. And also on the other hand to find my place amongst drinking friends or at parties. Not that i have no fun but drunk people are not. With what did you guys replace the fog of the booze? And how your friendship relations and nightlife changed?

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new style, no filter 💚 Fade on the sides, not much left up top. Could've buzzed the whole thing. My barber kept it anyway. And honestly? I like it. A lot of guys have a complicated relationship with thinning hair. I stopped fighting it and started finding it hot. Thinning hair is hot. That's the post. Keep this or buzz it next time? Tell me. 💚

Comin out if my cave

Today, I am letting you go. But before I do, there is one thing I want you to remember karma knows everything. It saw the smallest thing that hidden so carefully. every deception concealed behind tenderness every promise made without meaning every kiss that pretended to be real. Karma witnessed the pain you caused, the wounds i carried in silence and recorded every moment you made me question everything. Nothing escaped it. Nothing was forgotten. I release you, and I leave you with everything you have done. Perhaps karma will forgive you.