lav

Uh yeah unless you love walking on eggshells.

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jjgmclean

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patricksf

Just be direct and ask if being direct is a problem. If you make them feel safe talking I think that’s usually all someone needs.

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justkp

@alceus Love your take on this. Real red flags don’t usually announce themselves. I guess the real question is what someone does with that self-awareness, whether it leads to growth or just becomes another excuse for the same patterns.

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die

No, cause then you would be avoidant too. Attachment styles can change if the person works on it. He recognizes his and told you about it, that’s a big step

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logan-anthony

There’s a big difference between someone describing themselves and using it as a crutch, and describing themselves with the intent to change it. Be scrupulous about understanding what he intends to do with that information.

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ozgurto

don’t look back hunny

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doctor-mcd

Knowing your attachment style and actively working on it are two different things.

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albertopasarin

Yes, run

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shinblue

@die staying away from people who tell you they have issues is not being avoidant, it's prioritising your own peace

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die

@shinblue you see someone with issues and you stay away, i see someone with issues and try to help, maybe the person was just honest and is working on it, maybe talking about it is a way of asking for help or reaching out. Gotta have a little faith in humanity. That’s two takes on that and both are fine and can coexist

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edo_lio

Run for your life pls x

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jcp

People take all their personality traits and invent pathologies with it

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dan96

for👏the👏hills👏

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