Building a real intimacy is quite rare these days. Doesn’t have to be a relationship, friendships can be soulish with something genuine.
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expectant
I’m talking about your post
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joshkay
I think so based on my experience.
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expectant
No I don’t I understand your reason now
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biscuit
True for me. My platonic husband, as I call him, and I speak daily. He is monogamous and I’m poly. We are there for each other and I experience an intimacy I haven’t with many. He gets me a n many levels and we are pretty much energetically connected by the hip. Yes, it’s a friendship but it has an intimacy that is nourishing and deep.
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joshkay
@biscuit this is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing. You just shared what I long to have especially without the sexual intimacy.
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juvenlee_surrealart
That's funny you say that because I saw a headline saying gay men suffer from 'attractiveness complexity'- we constantly want, need to be seen, feel, be-attractive. It's made many of us isolated from more meaningful relationships. The relationships we have end up shallow because they're appearance driven.
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joshkay
@juvenlee_surrealart that’s an interesting take. I’ll take one meaningful relationship over appearance always. Absolutely worth it.
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