Guys, I need your help. What are the most unconventional ways to overcome a really painful heartbreak? I’ve been an absolute wreck for the last few months and I still don’t know how to overcome it all.
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lax
Get moving. Flood your brain with dopamine from exercising. Go to group exercises/activities preferably something gay so that it’s comforting/get to meet new people.
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nikolai
@lax I like this advice from that angle! Not just excercies but a loooot! I’ll keep it
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cjexplor
Time is the only cure. Until it stops, eat better, exercise more and be more social. Don’t isolate yourself. Keep busy ✌️
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ffffound
I can make you a sad music breakup playlist if you'd want.. which idk actually ever helps things but is definitely a lot of feelings lol
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carlosocho8
Time and what do you do with time. Let it your pain and sadness grow. Don’t hidde. The emotions have to feel in all your body, and then will go
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walsivad
Look at your heartbreak in the eyes and tell it : okay, thank you for the lesson, now it’s time for you to leave. You are not your emotions. If you feel like you want to move on from this, regain control of your life by doing things that you know are good for you and life will get better with time.
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deniz
accepting it as one of life’s universal events, like wisdom teeth removal, appendicitis, a sickness to overcome, with the time, care and effort it needs and demands. somehow shifted the perspective for me
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