I went to MotherDisco by myself tonight, here are my Opinions... 1. “Sometimes being a gay Black man in a space like this feels like stepping into a room where you’re both the main character and the mystery guest.” 2. “There’s nothing like that moment when another Black queer person spots you across the room and you share that silent nod like, ‘You good? We safe? You cute.’” 3.“The best part? When the right song comes on — the one only the Black girls, the Black gays, and your spirit understand — and suddenly you’re not at Mother Disco anymore. You’re in a church. Your church.” 4.“Being Black and gay in a club is always a balance between: Do I want attention tonight or do I want peace tonight? Because I can’t have both.”