Anyone else spend their Saturday nights making art by themselves? I can’t pretend I don’t enjoy it. But it is a lonely thing.
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cajunboy
I find it therapeutic.. but I like sharing the final piece with friends though.
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leni00
I feel this 💯
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theartfulroger
Let’s have a Saturday night FaceTime arts club??
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ojo
It is melancholic and restorative at once
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devvvice
I love to play piano on Saturday nights with a glass of wine. That’s my form of artistry :)
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izo
Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights… You are right, it feels lonely. Although, it is also so peaceful… the streets are quiet, the neighbours are sleeping, sometimes the silence is interrupted by the wind or my dog snoring in the background. Meanwhile I’m trying to get the right depth of field for a photo. It’s strange how much I like this.
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tommykid
Yes and I’d be creating with you! 🙌
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justben
@cajunboy yeah I enjoy getting to work through my ideas in peace; and I do show the partner what I’ve done. Mostly… I hide the failures 😄
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justben
@theartfulroger when I say Saturday night I mean like 1am Sunday morning lol I can’t even get started until mister is in bed after 10. But I do like the idea of a collective art club- how might that work?
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theartfulroger
@justben hmm I dunno, just thought we could all video call on FaceTime or WhatsApp and just see what everyone’s up to, leave it running, chat, ask questions, show work… 🤷🏻‍♂️
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justben
@ojo oh you’re so right. Melancholy is a more accurate description of what I meant. I’m quite content by myself when I’m working - at least most the time. Occasionally I would like some company to bounce something off or I get a pang of the witching hour sadness … it’s a kind of poetic feeling, or at least I think it could only be described in a poetic way. I’m sure there’s a language out there with a word for exactly the feeling.
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justben
@izo Absolutely- and I really can’t create at any other time. I dislike the suffering artist cliche but I must say I make my best work when I have this melancholy on me. Melancholy is just the bittersweet sadness of knowing that everything is temporary- bittersweet because we can’t change it but we can enjoy something all the more for knowing it cannot last.
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devvvice
@justben I love to play Chopin and Stravinsky, but typically end up playing some random songs that have been stuck in my head all week. For wine, sometimes it’s Cabernet Sauvignon or Sauvignon Blanc.
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nxt2020
I certainly doooooo
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justben
@devvvice that sounds so beautiful and what a contrast; Chopin and Stravinsky! Dumbarton Oaks is a favourite to paint to - anything with a strong rhythm gives me energy.
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leecooperwood
Yes totally… more enjoyable than going out to a bar where you can’t sit and have to shout to have a conversation… no thanks, I’ll stay home and work on myself! It’s a kind of loneliness that I find calming.
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