What does your ideal date look like? Especially the first
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jcp
Always a restaurant date. Ideally a restaurant both of us never went to. For me, food is the best expression of love.
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luisteran
probably a restaurant, or something fun like bowling
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domabouttown
Coffee first to see whether it’s worth going for dinner. Sometimes there is no connection or the pics don’t match the profile.
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jcp
@romeo_an and then some action in the bushes ?
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bronsont
Museums, conservatory or something similar. Do something that is active and allows you to stand side by side instead of sitting across from each other. You’ll learn more about the person this way than interviewing them at a dinner and studies have shown sitting next to someone is more comfortable to our brains than staring directly across like at a restaurant
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coffee. talk. talk. laugh. talk. flirt. talk. dinner. walk. talk. laugh. flirt. second date. hug. home.
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xandermar
I’m really into the 'non-date' date. It takes the pressure off and lets us actually hang out without all the formal norms. Let’s keep it low-key: hoodies, jeans, a cool exhibition, and then some food and drinks. Just easy vibes.
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Coffee and book/vinyl store browsing, I can learn so much from a person by what they drink, look at/buy
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Stealing at the lego store and building it together 😍 adrenaline first and a calm moment to chat after 🔥
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giving-mildly-impressive
Listening to music with Motorcycle ride or car ride and talking, then stop by a view site to have a picnic, and play chess lol
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