shinblue

Perhaps at work or in uni or sth idk😭

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jonauk

@shinblue 😭😭😭

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dusk

I always wonder how much people willingly waste each other’s time or if in their head they are actually trying (whatever it is they are trying).

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jonauk

@dusk pardon ?

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dusk

@jonauk I mean, when one is trying to get to know somebody, either new faces or old faces, either from new places or old places.

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egosumeric

I think the biggest challenge is when you’re actively searching. You often find other people who are searching, but everyone tends to be searching for something very specific in those moments. Takes a lot of luck for two people to be searching for each other at the same time.

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jonauk

@egosumeric this is true, I know I have good “intesions” to find someone, but I am really struggling to find someone who does too.

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fridi105

One piece of advice I’ve heard is if you don’t want someone that’s always out in the clubs. you’re probably not gonna meet that person at a club

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jonauk

@fridi105 that’s my point, where do you find the people that want the same as me? lol

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fridi105

@jonauk I don’t think apps are necessarily a bad place, but I just think it’s not real life for many people. I still think the best way to meet people is through other people. That can mean friends of your friends joining a club/group with someone you know.

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kanesphantom

If someone ever finds the answer, please SHARE! 🙃

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jonauk

@fridi105 yeah I guess you have a good point. I don’t have many friends either ahaha 🤣 but on apps I see the same people I’ve seen for years, or they either an ocean away. And they end up being time wasters or sometimes they don’t know what they want, when they say they do…..I really think it’s really difficult nowadays

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gius3pp

I feel that. I’ve been going to places I’ve never been and have actually met some decent people. I’ve started exploring way out of my comfort zone and it’s actually been working out. Maybe a change of scenery? It’s definitely tough out there!

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sailormars

Stop looking for it 🫶

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statmanthom

This is such a hard question to answer, because there’s not a single perfect answer. There’s many people and situations that will happen to you and I guess the best advice is to open yourself up to the people an situations in life you find yourself in, and look for the things that will enable you to be happy and will enable you to make someone else happy.

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