It’s wild how you can be talking to someone, genuinely trying to build somethin; and then one random morning, you see they’ve unfollowed you. No explanation. No conversation. Just a quiet exit. So you ask why, and the answer is: “I thought we’re not a good match.” And honestly? That part doesn’t even matter. Who cares about being “rejected” by someone you’ve met for a few weeks? That’s life. People connect, people don’t. It’s fine. What’s not fine is the lack of basic respect. Since when did we lose the ability to communicate like adults? At what age do we finally grow into the maturity to say things openly instead of disappearing, unfollowing, or avoiding a simple conversation?
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kennyekums
Its just emotional immaturity wrapped in the body of a grown man who thinks running away is better than confronting.
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imiano.max
Our lack of communication will be our downfall I swear 😭
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shg
@mtb0 yk, if we were like in our 18s— I was ok with! We are f*cking above 30! This immaturity is kinda frightening!
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jcp
It’s about selfishness. It’s easy for the person deleting the convo but the other one is the one hurting
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dorian-l
Unfortunately many people prefer to ghost instead of having a normal conversation like adults ☹️
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theartfulroger
It’s less about at what age we show respect to others, more about when we show maturity in our relationships. Yeh it sucks that people can be so rude.
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shg
@jcp I do agree… people are acting selfish
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