Question for bottoms, why are you so anti vers? Like you do realize a...

lav 7 months

Question for bottoms, why are you so anti vers? Like you do realize a guy that can bottom makes for a better top right?

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Great question.

7 months

z-ldn

Agreed! I do mind that most tops don’t liked to be topped tho 😂. In my experience, I think they think it less of a top. I knew one guy who wouldn’t even be rimmed because he felt it made him less masculine. IMO tho, as a bottom, there’s nothing hotter than a guy that will let me top. 😍

7 months

lav

@z-ldn I get that tho booty pounding is not everyone’s cup of tea but attaching masculinity to sex is so archaic like what is this, 3000 bc?

7 months

z-ldn

@lav Right? Like, we’re already gay, bottoming doesn’t make you “more gay” 😂

7 months

henryttjva

we're anti vers cause we know what we like and what feels best for us and how to make the other person feel good, for some of us being a bottom is engrained into our personality and how we explored our sexual interests and for me specifically i played with my hole first for awhile before even knowing abt jerking off so i js have no interest in topping and it doesn't do anything for me sexually to fuck someone...if i am getting fucked and there's other guys there and they want to ride me then im game for that but not to only top during sex

7 months

llamatechnerd

I’m bi so obviously I’m a top in that situation. When it comes to men, my only goal is to make him feel good and get him off. I often don’t have to touch myself to get off. Him pounding me pushes me over the edge. Riding him and seeing the that primal look in his eyes amazes me and make me proud of how I can take control of him like that. Also, it makes me safe and taken care of when he’s in me.

7 months

kings_world

@z-ldn I feel you, for me tops who don’t bottom are bad tops. They have no idea how it feels

7 months

henryttjva

@kings_world i try to steer clear of guys who have never bottomed, been rimmed, used toys, etc cause they have no sense what we as bottoms enjoy and that it's not js about them fucking us however they want without any concern abt us

7 months

z-ldn

@kings_world 100% agree! Think that works both ways too. After topping, it definitely made me appreciate a good top more.

7 months

kings_world

@henryttjva 100%

7 months

casbahmike

@z-ldn 😂 😂 if anything, it’s topping that makes one more gay. If two men plan to fuck, the top has to be aroused or nothing is gonna happen. A bottom can get fucked even if he’s not the least bit aroused. I wouldn’t recommend it, but it’s certainly possible. That’s just anatomy. 😂 😂

7 months

sailormars

To be verse is to be gifted honestly. I think openness is required and a lot of people are afraid to explore beyond their comfort zone.

7 months

casbahmike

If you’re looking for a long term relationship, I suggest avoiding men who are 100% either top or bottom, because people change over time. If one partner wants to reverse roles at some point, then the sexual relationship will end. I also think someone who absolutely refuses to switch roles, even only occasionally, is probably not concerned enough about his partner’s pleasure, and is probably selfish in other ways, as well.

7 months

casbahmike

@sailormars 💯 versatility allows for spontaneity, which I really like. I like enjoy not knowing what’s going to happen on an encounter, and I enjoy seeing if I can find out what really turns a guy on or if he can discover what does it for me.

7 months

z-ldn

@casbahmike oh my god 100% 😂 never thought of that.

7 months