Any pointers on liking someone 2500 miles away - Kal-El (@rainbowwarrior) • Collective

rainbowwarrior 9 months

Any pointers on liking someone 2500 miles away

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Like someone else

9 months

rainbowwarrior

Haha no thank you

9 months

goodbadboy

Some people just like to suffer. There was a term for it. And when they can actually have someone for real that’s the moment they loose all interest

9 months

rainbowwarrior

So far only opinions and no pointers 😭 has no one been involved in something like this?

9 months

alvo

I had a good long distance experience, have been together for 9 years, married for 4. Easy? Not. If you all really want to be with each other you’ll have to be patient, flexible and very assertive.

9 months

rainbowwarrior

Thank you @alvo for letting me know it’s possible

9 months

matt.vst

Oh gosh ! I feel you, it can end beautifully but at times it can get really hard …

9 months

rainbowwarrior

@matt.vst I’m ready for the roller coaster

9 months

casbahmike

I’ve done it, and before the internet, too. If you both are committed and work at it, you can work out careers that will eventually allow you to be together.

9 months

casbahmike

Just make sure you both have the same understanding of what you want and what’s expected. For example, if you’re going to be separated for months at a time, can you hook up?

9 months

casbahmike

Happy to tell you my story, but that’s my advice.

9 months

rainbowwarrior

@casbahmike thank you for this insight. I’m open to all stories

9 months

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I did and now we’re 4.5 years together almost :)

9 months