Idk whether to go out for New Year’s Eve or not, someone plz give me a definitive answer ;/
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anseo
NYE is the weirdest night of the year because generally you’ve to choose between social overload or social isolation. My rule of thumb is to do a check in w yourself about how your social battery is post Christmas. If it’s on the lower side and rest feels needed, listen to it 🫶
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michenoble
@anseo so real plus everything is more expensive at new years
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anseo
@michenoble It can be absolute carnage to get home too but if your body needs a party you won’t mind that. If you need something more chill you’ll be allergic wading through that chaos 😅
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michenoble
@anseo Yh true, probably too much hassle considering the outcome of my night out would always be on a knives edge coz I tend to go out alone, I hope my car is fixed by then and I can just go for a chill drive
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anseo
@michenoble If it’s still in the shop on NYE, promise yourself a particularly good drive with some food in the new year. I’m having a chill one this year as well because my rescue dog goes into ORBIT when the fireworks start. I’d feel so bad leaving him deal with that so I turned down the party and instead will spend it at home with my partner, him and some dog Xanax 😅
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michenoble
Aww poor thing hopefully they aren’t to petrified this time, I have a Rottweiler back home in Yorkshire who’s exactly the same x
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sampson
A friend told me the astrology for this new years was super chaotic (and not in a fun way) so if you’re feeling to stay home, the stars are apparently encouraging the same ✨
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findingjoshua
what would you do as an alternative? how would you celebrate on your own?
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sampson
@findingjoshua I’m leaning towards a chill evening with friends at someones home. But in the past when I’ve spent NYE alone I’ve opted for a self care evening (think your fave drink, long bath, intention setting for the year) and then gotten up early for the sunrise NYD - I’m in Aus though, not sure how sunrise would fare in colder climates 💕
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findingjoshua
@sampson if i have anything to say about it, it’s that those sound better than going out to some overly busy bar or club with a crazy entrance fee haha
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michenoble
@sampson this sounds a lot better than going into the new year with a hangover icl
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