I have a question, your biggest red flags in LGBTQ+ dating? Here’s mine. Grindr, moves to fast, people who don’t take time to build a dynamic, people with loud judgment, performative people, stereotypes, derogatory language, gay for pay, unnecessary shade, lack of respect to others even with differences, and trying to change someone when they don’t want to conform. What’s yours?
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goodbadboy
My top 1. It’s an open relationship but only one of you knows about it 2. His main hobby is chemsex 3. He’s trying to build relationship based on heteronormative roles
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kennyekums
avoidance and the inability to have difficult conversations in a constructive manner. It shows there will be no progress. Also gaslighting, silence and stonewalling.
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dylpics
Kindness. Doesn’t matter if you’re the hottest guy on this here planet earth, if you’re unkind, we’ll be like oil and water. Also, you need personality. You can be the pinnacle of beauty, an Adonis, if you will, but without personality you’re wasting my time. TLDR: being a hot, vapid bitch doesn’t do it for me.
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henryttjva
dating red flags is an over obsession with pics before the first date. it’s like boy if we get along and it goes well u get to see whatever u want but if u js want selfies and nudes go on x
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