xxxxxxxxxavi 10 months

everytime i get into collective i feel weird for wearing clothes

honeybun 10 months

‘I am Vertical’ - Sylvia Plath

luisteixeira 10 months

“Comparison is a thief of joy”

fromyashawithlove 11 months

Is it a red flag if you’re about to hit 30 without ever being in a relationship?

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piu-piu 10 months

All of my people wanna free them all

reedbooks 11 months

I just realized my crush was a freshman in high school when I was born 😅🥲 why do I do this to myself?

huwang 11 months

How to start a conversation with someone you have a crush on 🙉？

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milly 11 months

People will go “wait you’ve never dated anyone or anything?” With genuine shock as if I don’t stand before them, no eyebrows, an in depth knowledge of tumblr and a spreadsheet for my DVD collection

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milly 10 months

iMDb gotta be one of the best websites

noacartr 11 months

Is John Reed’s worth the price?

aelindsay 11 months

Slow down and just feel these days

deedaritz 11 months

Caught one of the shooting stars of the Perseid meteor shower tonight. Do I gotta charge overnight or am I good to go?

jakedonovanxx 11 months

I just want to earn money for tattoos 😭 and people buying houses 🏠😅 and building families

aresdefer 11 months

Dearest app developers, I hope this post finds you well. Ok, so when is this app coming to Android so I don’t have to use my old iPhone anymore, thanks so much. Yours faithfully, James-Jack. Peace xoxo

vuyo 11 months

Hello, I’m looking for artist managers in Paris or U.K who work with singers and dancers.

pabllt 10 months

So I can’t share music bc I don’t use Spotify 😒

sierramichhh 10 months

so many cute boys on here but they just want the other cute boys, I get it tbh bc I want them too

codakworld 11 months

After leaving a wedding weekend I always think I want a relationship to experience love like that, but then my heart thinks “hmm, better not”

brandnlee 11 months

something I find extremely beautiful and healing about adult relationships - new & old - is that they are always finding parts of you to complement. what I mean by that is, for those of us who do not necessarily meet or relate to European beauty standards, we all share the lived experience not being the most attractive person in the room. so receiving those complements from individuals who are none the wiser of our own insecurities - they allow us to see ourselves in a newly formed light. that was a very long winded way of saying thank you for helping heal wounds that have always been there ♥

pzzo 11 months

Looking? Yeah I’m looking for a new workout playlist (DM me)

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muecasintetica 11 months

what exercises have you done for shadow work? Side note: I’ve been sober (from my substance of choice) and I haven’t been counting for how long, everytime I crave it I say “I don’t need it.” And that’s my “fix.”

fleaskinny 11 months

I don’t know why I can’t stay consistent in my art anymore. I abandon it repeatedly but I break my own heart doing so lol. Ugh my little brain 😞

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type.a.hippy 11 months

Anyone else get nervous excited before getting a new tattoo?

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jarrodt83 10 months

This Monday is especially hard for some reason

toniminkov 11 months

I’m so confused on how this app works but can’t wait to post every thought I have x

timosworld 11 months

COLLECTIVE HEALING #7 "I am currently being trained to become a systemic coach and psychodrama facilitator. One of the most fundamental learnings so far: the people who seem to keep on top of everything are the ones who struggle and suffer the most. We are all hustling and struggling with life. It's part of our journey. What are you struggling with right now? Let us uncover some shared experiences."

gore-galore 11 months

Do I have any drag artists or clowns in the chat?

felipe.tx 10 months

Seria muito bom encontrar mais brasileiros aqui

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luisteran 11 months

I feel like good moments and some people are like the stages of a day; meeting someone new it’s sunrise, intoxicatingly beautiful, mesmerized by it and all it’s color after the darkness of the night, starting to find comfort in them is like the rest of the day, the comes the high, when it either becomes to good to be true, the lastest rays of sunshine, warming you and warning you that it’s almost over, then comes the sudden hit of darkness after they’ve left, and at some point in the night where the only lights comes from the moon; where you find yourself drowning in nostalgia.

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clownpup 11 months

might shave my eyebrows hmm

itsmaxwel 11 months

At what point does ‘we’re seeing each other’ become ‘we’re together’? Is it a number of dates, weeks, months…

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piu-piu 10 months

I’m an African Belle : Brains Booty And all Business

death 11 months

fellow horror movie lovers, run don’t walk to watch “Bring Her Back”

r10 11 months

Where are my queer horror lovers at?! 🏳️‍🌈 Just finished watching Weapons movie!solid 10/10!

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aliyaan 11 months

Need someone to look at me the way Conrad looks at Belly 😫🥹

iante 11 months

We are all worthy of love and intimacy. The value that we have for ourselves is not diminished just because someone doesnt see you. We are all valuable people. Outside of abs,face cards, and money.

alfred1200 11 months

I kind of need movie suggestions hahah

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melrose 11 months

It feels so rare to find a corner of the internet where the noise fades away and all that's left is peace, love, and understanding. The anxiety, trauma, and constant debates of other platforms can be overwhelming, but here—this queer space—everything clicks. I'm so thankful to be part of a community where I can show up as my authentic self and not feel drained or attacked. This is what it feels like to exist without the constant weight of the world on your shoulders. Sending love! It’s a reminder that we can have spaces that uplift, not overwhelm. ✨🌈

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vale 11 months

Literally realised that jacked muscly guys wouldn’t even look at other guys with different bodies than theirs, in the club especially!

cleudenycoelho 11 months

What does ice taste like? 😜

mick.ser 10 months

Phone stolen at a circuit party is a right of passage, yes?

hmln_leo 11 months

Not my ex asking me if I’d pass by London any time soon. Why would I

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brandnlee 11 months

I was watching a TikTok where this girl said “sometimes you are too diva to be dealing with things” and I realized in that moment, how many times I have dealt with the bullshit that I did not deserve to

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thotanist 10 months

Everyone wants to be a tall king but nobody talks about the back pain 😩

stan.satin.augustas 11 months

I’ve always hated when people posted shit like “ I cut my bangs... In my psychosis era😜” but it's now the third time I've cut my hair after having it long for years, and I can say that none of these haircuts were done on a clear mind with full mental capacity. Each time it felt so chaotic and simply too much that once it's done it feels like I wasn't present at all.

jtree 11 months

What’s your longest relationship?

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die 11 months

To be loved is to be seen.

piu-piu 11 months

Unless you’ve got a PJ I’m too old for long distance

kraynor98 11 months

Quick question: If I came out to my cousin in a text, do I have to come out to rest of my fam-aunts, uncles, cousins etc.?

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deejay 11 months

Forget all the negativity and the past, have an open mind about everything and it will give you a new chapter for a new relationship! - A.K.

clownpup 11 months

treated myself to a new pair of headphones and wired earbuds and i love these things already omg, love being an audiophile

marcoasfonseca 11 months

Don’t make hard decisions on difficult days!

muecasintetica 11 months

crying and craving cigarettes.

sforsavvage 11 months

Where do you go when you go quiet

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