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If we all get raptured tomorrow we should all meet up on the collective cloud xx
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Taking a cue from the buffalo. 🦬 They don’t flee the storm — they instinctively move toward it. The sooner you’re in it, the sooner it passes. ⛈️
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If this post gets one like I’ll quit my job. xoxo
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poems i wrote as a teenager 1/? all the times i died inside with no place to run or hide all that time i was broken hearted cause my soul had long departed all the feelings not displayed and all the bad decisions made i kept on running never stopped always hoping i was the one you loved
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If 2025 is ICE, Liquid Glass, Labubus and Genocide I’m dreading 2026
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Have you ever experienced bottom shaming and how did you overcome it?
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Any love I gave to you is yours to keep.
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Queer men: What makes a guy really attractive?
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What’s your fav REAL HOUSEWIVES quote ?
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Gays/Bies: What is the worst quality in a man?
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Reminder that Gaga is a huge zio😪
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i need a gym advice, can you help me?
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Lock in at work, lock in at the gym. Go crazy at home
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Many have told me, ‘The way someone acts during and after a breakup shows who they truly are.’ You win some, you lose some. I’m just glad my body is finally regulating back to normal again.
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Just signed up for an online queer speed dating halloween party! Can wait to go on a date in a onesie! 🎃🥳🍷👻❤️
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For every little joyous moment, evil always finds a way to sabotage. This world is so brutal and I feel so defeated. I’m not feeling okay. 😢
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I want nipple piercings cos they look hot under a shirt but my nipples are so sensitive that I’m scared to touch them.
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Why so obsessed with me? Boy I wanna know 😛
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There is moustache you have my like🙂‍↕️✅
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ready for a fairouz autumn
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Stop watching stupid dance videos.
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just need a swiftie boyfriend
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Would love recommendations on coffee makers! In the market for one, and overstimulated by options. 🙃
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What are you guys doing for Halloween?
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Any tips for getting into photography?
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london collectors! do any of you have any recs for salons to bleach/dye hair? tysm
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What are your 🟢green and 🔴red flags?
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SF foodies, what’s your favorite pastry/dessert place right now?
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i really do think Selena Quintanilla would be up there with Beyoncé in another world
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Soooo, i went to a rave last week and i realized that i love techno more than I thought and right now i have this need for raving omggg someone take me to a rave please i need to dance all night long 😭😭
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I appreciate those who are extra, and go the extra mile to to god knows where, because very few people hardly give an inch to us these days.
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I need to go out and dance with some gay people
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Queers: What show are we watching rn?
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each day is pretty similar
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Just got my tickets for La Casa Azul @ Sala BUT in November 🔵 🤩
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I forgot that dutch ppl are kinda annoying 🥲🙂🤐
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Hey I’d regret it if I didn’t tell you you have the kind of smile I’d chase after. Yours love 💘
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Was “threads” a thing for all of three months, or what? Asking for a friend. 👀
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Any other RunDisney runners here? Anyone heading to Wine and Dine?
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If it’s make believe Why does it feel like a vow we’ll both uphold somehow?
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newly 21 and in the clurb tonight 🥳 life so good
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It’s nearing 11 pm. Anyone wanna chat?
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look at that horse, look at that horse, look at that horse 🐎 🎶🎶
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What’s your favourite part about being part of the LGBTQ* Community?
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Need to trim my whole body but I’m super lazy about it
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People are just so mean sometimes n i’m like gurl how can you even, i like completely lose it on humanity n specifically on gay culture, like wtf bro how can u ppl be so heartless n stoned hearted i’m not your china doll n this is just lot for my innocent heart
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Today is International Coffee Day… you know what to do 😏☕️🏺🗞️
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The meth heads on Grindr need to be stopped also why is everyone on there so odd
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done my usual and gone all scared quiet n shy 🥺 ill be back soon 🥺
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If you like a cute Latin guy who loves to read,you will love my page!!! 😊📚
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How is everyone using this app? Also, say hi!
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