unboxitabe 9 months

What’s the first thing you do when you get bored

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aphrodite.aphroditus 9 months

Learning to be careful with starting the conversation (argument) etc. from the point of departure of the individual doing the work of the oppressor. For the question might not be situated within the framework they are proposing but elsewhere.

unboxitabe 9 months

What the one thing you wish was different in the Queer community?

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sam2bh 9 months

i need a gym buddy to show me what to do (yeah like a free personal trainer)

psychedelicprince 9 months

today is monday, november 3 2025, and i have one friend who just got engaged and another who got sentenced to jail.

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byjoshjames 9 months

If your state has an election today, PLEASE VOTE! Your voice matters.

sailormars 9 months

Elegance is intelligence made visible through action

hamal 9 months

My notifications have been blowing up ever since I downloaded this app. Thank you all for all the love ❤️

milly 9 months

One of my absolute favourite picture books from when I was little is so fucking niche, expensive and hard to get a copy of. Having weird ass art parents is often a curse (affectionate)

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justinrossberg 9 months

So is this app just like hot guys only??… cause god damn it’s like scrolling through an art museum

temporaryboyfriend 9 months

I was so eager to find love as a teenager. Now that I’m in my 20s I still yearn, but I’m glad I didn’t settle at the first thing I received. Throughout my many failed relationships I picked up a lot of new tastes, discovered artists I never would have stumbled across on my own, and learned how to give into someone despite being from entirely two different worlds. I always say love is a muscle that you have to train. I’m still working on that but the journey has been incredible to say the least. Whoever finds me will find me a better person.

sailormars 9 months

If you knew me at all, you wouldn’t try to keep me small Let that sink in.

justin.mchl.gray 9 months

I’ve always been frustrated by the fact that in the wild or even on other social media apps that there is little to no way to know for sure if the people I was seeing or interacting with were gay or not. I’m so glad that now I have a place where I will always know for sure that these are gay men. I’ve craved real connection with people I can understand and relate to in this way my entire adult life and this place makes that WAY easier to seek and find. Thank you so much! How about you all? What do you think so far? Are you making real connections?

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sailormars 9 months

Confusion happens when we avoid the truth that has been laid before us. And because we sugar coat facts we choose to feel confused about how bitter they are on the inside.

milly 9 months

Idk if I’m just tumblr pilled but didn’t we like low key cancel lily Allen ? Am I making shit up again

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joseenriquemrnz 9 months

Yes, I’m looking for you, but I don’t know yet

naughtyyzaddy 9 months

Got wrecked like a haunted house last night!!.. 😮‍💨💀

bamboe 9 months

“ Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, (I am large, I contain multitudes.) ” ♥️

theatergeek33 9 months

“So I throw up my fist, throw a punch in the air And accept the truth that sometimes life isn't fair Yeah, I'll send out a wish, yeah, I'll send up a prayer And finally someone will see how much I care”

temporaryboyfriend 9 months

when i write love songs, it’s rarely ever about one person in particular. sometimes it’s a fantasy. sometimes it’s an amalgamation of different boys. then one day I met someone who almost seemed to walk right out my own music. my heart fluttered.

strawbrry 9 months

every so often I get mildly self-conscious about how obsessive I am about Halloween but then I remind myself it’s one of the only times of year I felt comfortable as a kid

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cosmic_22 9 months

Anyone else excited for Halloween tomorrow

skhathisomusa 9 months

being gay os so much fun

lax 9 months

702 I feel like I’ve been only writing “safe” stuff because I was afraid of it being too close to the heart and forgot the purpose of journaling in the first place. Feels absolutely exhausted from the party during the weekend and will not do it any time soon.

autumnexpected 9 months

Preferences when making out? I feel like everyone has a strong opinion...🤭

theguysacha 9 months

“Make me laugh” says guy with no humour. “NPNC” says faceless profile. “Be single” says couple looking for a third. Did I miss any?

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milly 9 months

Girl I love coming on here and being annoying and commenting on everyone’s posts !

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sierramichhh 9 months

It really irks me to send a man a like on hinge 🙄 #biprobs

muffyn 9 months

✨Gotta like the bad days, to love the great one✨

milly 9 months

When did Zohran Mamdani sleep last? Like scrolling TikTok I’ve seen him at a senior centre, 6 different clubs, filming TikTok’s on the street at 2am ???

juancaabstracto 9 months

AI sh1t in my Collective timeline? Be ffr

masc_y_medio 9 months

One day I would love to host a Gaysgiving or Gaylentines!

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masc_y_medio 9 months

I went to the best party last night! Prob one of my fav halloweens of all time!

nevv 9 months

Let me live beyond every sorrow With body, soul, and heart as one. Oh queen of my thoughts, Teach my spirit how to bloom again. Each day I dream of gentler days, A life of quiet, hopeful light. Do not fade, my cherished vision Stay beside me like the whispering wind. Do not vanish, my beloved dream; Be the breeze that circles me. Come closer still, into my arms Where you were always meant to be

felipe.tx 9 months

Thoughts and prayers are just the pathetic christian version of Sabrina’s I’m so sorry for your loss

theefreshprince 9 months

I’m trynna listen to almost every genre Drop some songs you like in the comments or the playlist below You might find some you like too so Ill leave some I like

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josemi 9 months

las amigas que se besan son la mejor compañía

mauriciom 9 months

Anyone down for a Gay book club?

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unboxitabe 9 months

Where are the bears at ☺️

arin 9 months

when will I fall in love? And what will it feel like? Maybe when it happens, I’ll finally find a new reason to live. I’ll share all the pain I’ve carried in my heart, I’ll pour all the warmth of my care into him, and in his arms, I’ll build my home. He’ll understand me without words, and I’ll feel him without explanations… Under the shade of stars at night, our eyes will speak everything our lips can’t say. Sometimes, we forget if we can’t live our innocence and playfulness again with the one we love, then what kind of love is that? Let there be laughter, teasing, and little fights… and when tears come, peace should only return in his embrace. Because love isn’t proven by saying “I love you” it’s proven by being there, by walking together, step by step, heart beside heart, until two souls breathe as one. 💖

callthemzaddy 9 months

when you start to listen to all the chatter and it doesn’t sound like there is any creative expertise behind “constructive criticism”, all it ever turns out to be is a bully without an imagination

serenawilliams 9 months

slept four hours since i woke up at 6am on friday morning. it’s 2:33am on monday morning. i don’t want to face the feelings of guilt. thinking that i just hit 1 day AGAIN, this is not a victory for me. how many times am i going to start from zero? i dont even have energy to be mad at myself, i’m just exhausted.

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giannni 9 months

y'all have gym nemesis too?

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caylasaysheyya 9 months

The lioness must stop ignoring the pain in her chest

avatar.isaac 9 months

they don’t warn you in life about how many people take up running as a hobby in adulthood, and I think that’s spooky and people should be warned

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hamal 9 months

I’m updating my playlist — what’s a song you’ve been obsessed with lately?🎵🎵🎹

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kiwi.lando 9 months

Who wanna binge a anime or play games?❤️

whatevergio 9 months

going to the university i dreamed and prayed to get into only thinking about how cozy my bed is

lax 9 months

I feel old, going out at 11 is challenging 704

perseus 9 months

Where are all my trans men at? 🏳️‍⚧️

tomdcamp 9 months

What’s your definition of a “slət”? Is it always offensive, or has it been reclaimed?

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