I’m feeling like I don’t really fit in to the “gay lifestyle” and I’m becoming really bored with it. Just back from Winter Pride Gran Canaria and a lot of it just felt quite shallow. I’m done. I wanna settle down.
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jcp
I may blow a fuse here. What is gay lifestyle. I never adhered to this idea that your sexuality influenced your lifestyle. I too never went to pride. What are the other clichés ? Gay bars where everyone is naked or in Speedos ? In my humble opinion, the fact that sleep with other men don’t influence my lifestyle
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johnpaul
I’m talking about the gay scene. If you don’t relate to it or adhere to cliches, good for you
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goodbadboy
Hm “gay lifestyle” is a really broad term under which people mix everything from just having gay friends to listening to Lady Gaga. Winter Pride at Gran Canaria is an extreme version of it. People know it’s trashy. Sometimes we like trashy things like french fries or binge watching drag race. But it’s not everyone’s cup of tea and doesn’t have to be yours
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johnpaul
@coachthom finally someone gets what I was saying! Thank you so much for responding. I have been saying to myself “is this it?” for a while now. Just not sure where else to go or where my people are
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tylerzcol
Me when I hate going to clubs lol
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sailormars
Find a lifestyle that suits you, do things that make you feel fulfilled and meet people in activities that you actually want to do!
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