I have a question, I just had my second gay club experience it was really good. Other then struggling with social anxiety, and I don’t really know how to approach guys I find attractive. Any advice on how to approach gay guys at clubs for getting to know reasons, and form a potential relationship. I could use, under the unfortunate circumstances.
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You say hello, how are you doing? Ask them if they’re having fun, and then tell them a story. It should be a little off the cuff, a little funny, and just a tad bit revealing… depending on how they react; if they react positively you offer to buy them a drink. And then ask them what brought them out that night. If they react indifferent or negatively, or look at you like get out of here.. you just smile and say cheers! And walk away, back to your friends. That way it seemed like just a random human experience and you save face… ❤️
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The story is really important because depending on how they react can tell you if they’re into you or not. If they look away like - whatever, you know.. if they are smiling, laughing, quizzical, you’ve got an in! Don’t forget to smile and ask them their name and tell them yours. ❤️
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