thotanist 10 months

My extremely functional friend asking me how happy I (usually) am and being shook when I said 6/10 🤪

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waf 10 months

Is slow horses the best tv series atm? signs point to yes

aresdefer 10 months

The way I’m in a good mood coming to the end of a 13 hour work day needs to be studied. What juices are flowing in my brain rn!? I need more of it.

unboxitabe 10 months

What’s a LGBTQ+ Book you would recommend to someone?

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joseph.nyc 10 months

So… Totodile, Chikorita, Tepig? Who did you choose?

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sailormars 9 months

The last step to freedom is borderline delusion

donovan.dona 9 months

México es un rancho.

clownpup 9 months

halloween this year is such a bust ngl but ima try to make the most of it

pach 9 months

we could be nice to each other wrong for each other right for each other and rise to each other

shg 10 months

I hate the way I got obsessed with this boy! I am not even ready for a relationship—but I cannot take him out of my brain! **** it!

jamme 10 months

I WANT A BOYFRIEND🥺

alekseev 10 months

ugh i hate this feeling when autumn comes. first it’s cool and romantic, then it just becomes gray and depressing. any suggestions how to make myself feel better during this time of the year?

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sierramichhh 10 months

sleep connects like bluetooth these days I be OUT

sierramichhh 10 months

how do you explain all that you’re feeling when you don’t have the words or energy to

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moor 10 months

Got the appointment for my name and gender change in my passport, everyone get excited for October 16th!!!

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theefreshprince 9 months

Lookin at my face and my vibe from my page… What piercing(s) should I get??

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theefreshprince 9 months

My Parents’ friend’s dad told me “Finding a good companion is very important in life… but not one though 2”

p_campo 10 months

Manifesting that the French government isn’t going to collapse once again this week 🥖🇫🇷

bryan-tino 10 months

I have a mini crush on my boss but hear this, he’s straight. I’m too old for this

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strawbrry 10 months

the therapeutic value of cleaning your house within an inch of its life :’)

strawbrry 10 months

free bleeding in the autumn rain for real

jax.jack_ 10 months

just finished watching Weapons and now i need to tell everyone about it :)

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sailormars 10 months

Does the fear of being unlovable stop you from feeling loved? If it does, that’s the feeling that’s blocking you from feeling loved.

kirwin 10 months

Gays will hack into the backend of this app and still be like “don’t know how this app works”.

lucienzera 10 months

I’m both excited and nervous about my new job… I hope it goes well though, wish me luck!

spikearreaga 10 months

ready to start accepting that 2026 is bringing too much change and I’ll need it but won’t love all of it

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jkadz 10 months

hey siri, do my job for me tomorrow so i can stay out with friends

theguysacha 10 months

Is it weird to still believe in romance? Asking for me.

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piu-piu 10 months

A girl is just looking for someone soft,thoughtful,nice,interesting,family oriented , emotionally willing AND able not abusing drugs (including alcohol) who likes to dance isn’t boring and lives in the same country 😭😭😭

chilly 10 months

What’s the wisest thing your grandparents told you that stuck with you?

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wilfy 10 months

coffee prices are going up like wdym 9 dollars for a latte 🥲

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virgo 10 months

We hit a season change and the vibe shifted severely

hmln_leo 10 months

Collective why show me cute guys in… Australia? 🥲

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fitzurek 10 months

what are you currently reading? 📖

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davidepejok 10 months

that rnb hit different rn

shg 10 months

Saw my ex kissing someone in the bar. I raised my glass! It is always nice to see charity work up close.

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donovan.dona 10 months

Mi primer libro está a nada de ser publicado, y aún no paso del título. Que emociónnn¡!

alexah 10 months

Hooyah navy hooyah navy

itsmaxwel 10 months

I wonder: is his 🍑 thinking about me?

aresdefer 10 months

I have recently discovered if a pretty guy compliments me I fold like origami oh lord. (This is not a subtle request, just an observation)

vibessedai 10 months

Adult question for the adultiest adults: where did you get your comforter from? Ideally one that’s not too thick/heavy and can be used year round

saochiang 10 months

Took the week off from work to clean my place up after an entire summer of working two jobs which lead to a really, REALLY bad burnout. I’m about 75% finished cleaning the place up and I’m looking forward to having my creative spaces back, fully functional and ready to make stuff again.

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sierramichhh 10 months

is it too cold to wear fivefingers now

sam-avocado 10 months

Spooky treats as it’s the season for it

benvstheuniverse 9 months

adulthood lowkey whooping my ass ngl..

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unboxitabe 10 months

What is your favorite part of Halloween 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃

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sierramichhh 10 months

need to rewatch season 8 of are you the one just to feel something

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shawnmendes 10 months

One Battle After Another is soooooo good.

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hamal 9 months

Who here is looking for new friends ?

_mattepio_ 10 months

I am currently balding (😭) from the top of my head, but I still want to “use” my hair. At least since they’re there, so come in my rescue and tell me what haircut I could make? (No I am not cutting them completely, I have my life to do that)

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juanro 10 months

I’m excited to move houses soon 🥰 is not my dream house, but after this one it will be 🫶🏽

hearteyes 10 months

Why does making a self tape feel so humiliating 😭

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itsrobynrobin 10 months

To this day I struggle making queer male-read close friends. Any thoughts? Anyone else got that issue?

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sierramichhh 10 months

This week tried to beat me but I won

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liamcfinnegan 10 months

Honestly, some times I feel like I’m too kind for the gay party culture. I ask too many personal questions and don’t act cool enough. Berghain this weekend taught me that. 😂

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lucasbernardic 10 months

Did you watch Boots on Netflix? What did you think?

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