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Anyone in London green fingered / houseplant daddy? I need to downsize my collection and i’d like them to go to good homes. 💚
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This app helped me realize im taking significantly less selfies than my peers
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VS FASHION SHOW TIMEEEEEEE<33333
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Im headed to the studio and trying to resist getting a coffee on the way … it’s kind of part of my *~*creative process *~*
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back on my lover boy bs
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Why is everyone so low effort doesn’t anyone reciprocate anymore 😒
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Taking boyfriend applications, the polycule is seriously starting to piss me off
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Emotionally unavailable for the foreseeable future. Time to prioritize me, my goals, my dreams, and my happiness. ❤️
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Do i unapologetically like and boost people who I think need the boost? Hell yeah. Do i also unapologetically like and boost people who don’t need the boost? Hell yeah. Basically, if I like you, and your content, you’re gonna know (keep creating besties)
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Can’t believe 4 months has passed since.. 723
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I’m glad I’ve got you lovely people to enjoy and appreciate my art. I know I shouldn’t get upset about open call rejections but when they choose three art works from one artist and it’s just a bunch of pears on a tablecloth… would it have killed you to have one less pear and make room for little ol’ me. 🤪 Anyway, fair play to pear lady, they are nice pears and not bitter like me. 😅 Q. Should I paint pears and not existential dread?
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Where’s all the crafty people?
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listening to jessica simpson at the gym (🏳️‍🌈)
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Trying to revel in the feeling of safety in my body and in my life. I realize whenever I’m uncomfortable I propulse my mind out of my body without ever really driving it back in 🫠
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Well the seasonal depression has just begun and I want it to be over already but I love the weather
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Acting how a man should treat my girls so my girls have good standards 😌
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Update: first day went surprisingly well! It was a bit overwhelming though 😅
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I wish that I could tell you I would Slow down and commit But the world is so big And full of life You can't hold in and I have so much to give… I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love I'm in love, I'm in love with everyone… 🎶
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demi said no SAD this autumn
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im trying to get useless fucking men on hinge to pay for my nails and they all wimps it’s dire. Yall want my puss but u can’t pay for my nails but u can pay for feeld majestic fuck this shit sorry cal don’t ban me hope I didn’t break the community guidelines it’s gay so hopefully the guidelines r ‘serve cunt’ and this is pretty cunt will update girls xx
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I love seeing fit and muscular men on here but where are the average bodied men at on this app? I do enjoy a dad bod! Not everyone is sculpted like Adonis! JS
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if anyone has a job (idc where) hit me up :) also ready to become a housewife 🧹🫃🏽🧑🏽‍🍼🏡 I can send you my CV for both lol
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Stomach’s been feeling weird all day… Looking for him… 724
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ykw Hamilton is a bitch for cheating on Eliza. Cheating in 1781 is insane.
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today i am feeling weak. work was horrible today. my team is a nightmare, has been all week. the second i get time to myself, i'm interrupted. fighting with my brother too. i am not thinking about doing drugs or drinking but today is a day when i feel like, what is the point of being sober if i hate myself and my life either way? day 11 is done woohoo. …..right.
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Immediately got unmatched when I told the guy that kink was a big part of my life 🤣😭
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i am SO ready for the new tame impala
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So glad it’s finally the weekend!!
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olivia dean deserves best new artist grammy next year
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Just got passively friendzoned… Great way to start the weekend
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Looking for some clothing brands to check out. What are you buying for your cute fall looks? I'll pay a tariff if I need to...
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sundays are for car boot sales
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Hinge’s “most compatible” feature was specifically engineered to piss me off
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I want to be a beekeeper
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What's your favorite blackout by Britney’s song?
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They hyped up ‘past lives’ as this major tearjerker and it was actually just…..boring
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I think Bonnie Blue is iconic and hilarious, opinions?
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New to this app - If anyone fancies showing me how to use this app that would be amazing, ty in advance lmao
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It’s been a day the past couple days
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‘In case it matters… [insert position]’ on a hinge profile - like, you’re clearly the one it matters to otherwise you wouldn’t write it???
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What’s your big three & venus? Mine is gemini 🌞 cancer 🌙 leo ⬆️ leo venus (the best combo imo😜)
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Time to say goodbye Collective. 🖤
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Hey @cal, I love all the art and cool stuff people post on the app, but I need somewhere to save it. Right now, I just have a convo with a friend where we send each other things we don’t wanna miss 🫣
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poems i wrote as a teenager 2/? still it hurts when it gets cold and i'm crawling in bed all alone still it hurts when i go through memories cherishing your laughter just like treasuries still it hurts cause i don't know the reason why i can’t move on my soul is weakened my heart it aches cause i know the reality but i can't stop this daydreaming of being with you entirely
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Be so delusional reality bends to your will.
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I hate that I can detect the ChatGpt in world renowned publications now…”___ didn’t just___they _____”
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Anyone here wanna be friends?
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Can someone actually make me fall in love with them?like the clock is tickiiiiin
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And this one is for my fellow immigrants. How do you heal this awful trauma you get from immigration? I’ve been an immigrant for 2.5 years, I basically had to flee my country and I’ve spent so much time and energy trying to assimilate in Spain. But at this moment I just feel like I’m just exhausted? And even though I really want it and I’m closer than ever, I still have this awful emptiness and loneliness from not having anyone really close around who would accept me fully or hug me when I really need it, or help me when I don’t understand a thing or just sick/tired. And there is a chance I might never get such person (basically, talking about life partner). So how do I get over it? Cause I’ve just spent 25 minutes weeping in the shower. I have friends but I am not sure if they help me covering that emptiness, as it seems.
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I’m performing my song “Lady Die” Live in 3 weeks 😭😭😭🤭
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Looking for your people? Finding a real community can be tough for LGBTQ+ folks. Discussions on Collective makes it easy.

Browse conversations and discussions from our global community of over 140,000 gay, lesbian, bi, trans, and queer folks. It's an open LGBTQ+ forum and chat space where we welcome straight allies and anyone who is just starting out, unsure of their labels, or early on their journey, too.

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