knagster 2 months

Where are the bears on this app? 🐻 👀

clownpup 2 months

i shall receive my fav flowers and food and even go see a movie in theaters this week because i will it into existence (i get paid this week)

harleymovingforward 3 months

feeling like I really need to step up my gayness and live my life to its full gay potential

enigmattic 3 months

Simultaneously too confident and assertive and not enough feels very NYCgay coded

curtis_vincent 3 months

I swear to God if every damn teenager in the suburb is going to the gym at the same time as me AGAIN I will tear a bitch fkn down

pedroid 3 months

I hope I'm not being spammy, but I love communicating through music...🎸❤️💎 Looking for people who like to discover new music and also share theirs! For fans of Nick Cave: did you know this lesser known song? Such a great groove, fantastic videoclip! Kick ass lyrics! Let's connect if you're Nick Cave fans or just music nerds and as much of a sucker as me for really sharp, well written lyrics 😎 Feel free to comment!

sierramichhh 2 months

The amount of dih I seen on here lately yall gotta chillll😭😭

johnywolf 3 months

Hey everyone! Can you give me some books recommendations:

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gius3pp 2 months

Everyone I get close to winds up leaving. What’s the point anymore. People just use you for a few bit when they’re bored or if they need a distraction from something and then that’s it. And then once they’re done with you, thrown away. It’s like you never even existed. And people wonder why I have trust issues. 🤷🏻‍♂️

pedroid 3 months

Any Leonard Cohen fans or poetry lovers out there? This is for you, my dears 😎 One of his lesser known poems, not on any album, and beautifully delivered live in this video ❤️ Let's get a thread going: if this poem moved you, feel free to comment on why, or highlight your favourite words. Enjoy!

udonomii 3 months

I didn't wanna sock 'em He had Gucci on his cleats

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southerncowrie 3 months

Fierce is fierce. That’s the long and short of it

tricky 3 months

Why are men so goddamn attractive? 😳

mirkoplengemeyer 3 months

Everyone on here is so fucking gorgeous?!

derrick-bronco 3 months

Why is it so difficult to find love?

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nicros244 3 months

everyone on this app is so hot🧎‍➡️

polo 3 months

I GET SO GAY OF THAT TEQUILLLAAA

sageandrage 3 months

I just want to create crazy, beautiful art—and if it helps and inspires others in the process then I would love that too. That’s the ultimate goal.

views.by.jan 2 months

„I‘ve got a little bit of what you are“ - this is everything.

sagerambler 3 months

Genuinely believe that Raye’s new album is going to be one of my favorite albums of all time. What a masterpiece! 😍

simonmc 3 months

Finally having gym calluses makes me feel so accomplished lol 🙏😔

mikevi 3 months

A question to anyone willing to respond! Is is typically normal for you 100% carry basically every conversation you are a part of? Family, Friends, Associates, potential other half, you send most if not all of the messages and recieve little responce and its alwayse days or weeks later. Im just tryin to figure out if im the one whose being unreasionable when it comes to potential relationship conversations. I figured they should be atleast Slightly different than a normal conversation. if im wrong, i need to both know and then change some things.

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lav 3 months

Thoughts on dressing like a hoe for summer?

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silasg 3 months

I can’t describe the loneliness of living alone after 11 years in a relationship. I no longer remember how to enjoy being by myself. The nights feel silent and monotonous. It’s not sad - just different. But it will get better 😊

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harleymovingforward 3 months

ok guys, let’s get this app POPPIN, where’s all my gay besties at 🌈

sierramichhh 3 months

I find it so rude that people disregard my vacation symbol AND snooze on slack like… do you think im gonna respond to you bc you pressed notify anyway??? Bc the answer is hell no fuck out my face ho

axl 3 months

I still fucking love you, babe.

avatar.isaac 3 months

Your camera lenses isn’t dirty it just has stigmatism

statmanthom 3 months

Nobody loves a stalemate. Liking it is another matter. Sharing bed sheets in a downy purgatory. Softness, no matter the position you prefer. You could lie in satin for eternity, but you’ll never love it. It’s a commitment in name only. A lovely open room with nowhere to sit. Standing, never acknowledging the windows, exits that could end the imagined battle whose victory is avoided at any cost, destitution embraced, bare bones coveted over any semblance of concession, a feast of truth left to rot along with the minds of men who desire the battle over the simple option of peace

sjmani 3 months

The grass isn’t always greener on the other side - sometimes it’s just painted green.

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thisisleo 3 months

ROSALIA Lisbon anyone too?

yakosef 3 months

referencing in fashion: take Coco Chanel and Alexander McQueen for example, they both have EXTREMELY different styles but they both wanted to empower women, and now people are simply referencing the clothes and not the idea that it was made to empower women, so now the clothes lack that energy and end up falling flat and the wearer is worn by the clothes, there’s not attitude or confidence

anseo 3 months

I hate switching gyms, it’s like the first day of school all over again. I’m walking around like a Sim and getting lost every 10 minutes 🫥

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curtis_vincent 3 months

Need to make more money so I can buy this man anything he wants ^me talking about me

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mikezr 3 months

Pues sí, nos gustamos. Los dos lo sabemos. Así que mejor fingir distancia, mirar a otro lado cuando el otro llega, responder tarde, hacer como que da igual. No vaya a ser que lo fácil funcione, que la risa encaje, que el deseo no se equivoque. Mejor complicarlo, no sea que, por descuido, acabemos siendo felices sin haberlo planeado. -Ron Lorent-

greginsweden 3 months

😳🥵🫣🥹🥰 Summary of Heated Rivalry, season 1

collective 3 months

How to make more LGBTQ+ friends Making more queer friends sounds easy, but it can be surprisingly hard. Our increasingly isolated digital world doesn’t help. Enter Collective, a thriving online community that helps you find new gay friends both locally and abroad. Try these tips using the app to grow your circle. Support the arts You don’t have to be an artist to form friendships through art. Use Collective to find drag shows, photography exhibitions, or open mics in your area. Introducing yourself to a person at an event for an artform you love can easily turn into going to the next one as buds. Start something new Have a niche interest like B-Horror, bee-keeping, or blowing glass? Whatever it is, start a club that meets virtually or in-person. Post on Collective to spread the word and find friends to nerd out with. Let the world know Tell friends far and wide that you’re looking for more LGBTQ+ friends. There are many queers in the same boat. All it takes is sharing a text post on Collective that you’re looking to go dancing or bouldering, and watch the comments pop off with gays keen to join. Ready for a new world of queer connection? Download Collective today.

mostlyval 3 months

if you ask me on a deeper level, i think people who’ll watch the HP series for nostalgias sake should do so… by doing it illegally. at the end of the day, who am i to police someone’s enjoyment of art? but what i will say is, if you care about trans people, you shouldn’t be invested in giving a singular cent of your money to Joanne. enjoy the media away, just don’t give her your money. 🏴‍☠️

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insatiable 3 months

The Architecture of Silence You appeared without warning, rising from the lake’s mist, and I had no way to prepare for the impact you’d have. In your eyes, I saw beauty—your smile brighter than anything I’d known. I fell quickly, dizzy from your charm and the flood of compliments that made up for years of silence. You were exhilarating. What followed was deeper. You gave me intangible gifts—feelings I never imagined possible. You made me believe I was important, desired, worthy. You said I brought you peace, that God brought us together, that you’d always protect me. With you, I felt transformed—strong, confident, unstoppable. Then, just as suddenly, you were gone. No warning, no explanation—only silence where love once lived. The loss was devastating, a sharp, enduring ache. I still don’t know whether to grieve what’s gone or be grateful it happened at all. The silence weighs heavily, but beneath it, something remains. You didn’t protect me from the pain of losing you—but you did protect me from my own doubt. My world is darker now, but I finally know my worth. My heart is broken, yes—but for the first time, it knows it deserves to be loved.

mikevi 3 months

not so fun, fun historical fact. basements, they exist because it is generally realllllllly difficult to hand dig a grave during the winter…. gotta put grandpa somewhere untill spring……

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sierramichhh 3 months

My nostrils are BURNT from smelling chlorine all day jesus christ

bald 3 months

Posting my old art makes me realize how much love I lost for the craft during university. It no longer felt like expression but a task I ran out of energy for. Shoutout to my artist burnouts and I hope you find your spark again 🫶🏼

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niccolowkey 3 months

What do y’all think of the current fashion trend of wearing everything baggy / relaxed fit?

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eusebius 3 months

Where’s the Grindr “right now” feature on here, but for making friends?

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polo 3 months

Haven’t used collective as my regular digital diary in a while… my co star says I should change that 🙂‍↕️

abvn 3 months

Y’all are so hot on here omg

eglanger18 3 months

Smart decisions always end up in manipulative people getting hurt.

xxomilo 3 months

sabrina carpenter just saved the music video industry again, and I am grareful for that

lax 3 months

577 Went to Hampstead Heath today and the weather was one of the best, ran around with my nephew and had such a great day

sailormars 3 months

Solo el amor con amor se paga, nada te debo y tú no me debes nada.

chanelapee 3 months

Im so conflicted today, Iced Matcha or Vanilla Chai 💁🏿‍♀️

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axl 3 months

Really sad I can’t eat avocados anymore. Every month has been one heart break after another.

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lucienzera 3 months

I’ve been reminiscing on these, old glittery christmas cards. You know, the ones with that old style, “maximalist” drawings… and though I never experienced it; it took me back to a fond memory. Do you ever get hit vy nostalgia like that too?

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