joseph.nyc

Be yourself first and foremost, otherwise you’ll be with people who sees a version of you that’s not you and it will just miserable - let them filter themselves out if they’re not into the you that you’re comfortable with

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Active listening.

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juvenlee_surrealart

If you’re looking for love you can’t come with any preconceived notions, or a checklist of what they need to be. That being said, do know what you value. Let your heart and your values guide you.

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mr_onest

dating without the “romantic wrapper”, without seeing it as test to understand if the other person could become your partner, and instead just treating the date as a way to get to know a possible new friend; this helped me being more authentic, unfiltered, and true to myself

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juvenlee_surrealart

@niott 😂 😂 😂

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bernatt

@mr_onest thankss 💕 💕

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casbahmike

It’s a cliche, but you’ll have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.

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bernatt

@casbahmike its a great advice tho 😂❤️

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szymk

Don’t be desperate. It’s never sexy

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hidden

There is no perfect person it’s about making an effort constantly to accept the other person fully.

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its-a-gabe

Don’t.

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casbahmike

@shivam I agree, but within limits, of course. There may not be “the one,” but there are plenty of wrong ones!

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casbahmike

@mr_onest that’s great advice!

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nebjamin

Don’t make every interaction into a mental list of checkboxes and discount people who don’t meet them all. Give people a chance.

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bernatt

@nebjamin thanksss💕 💕

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nebjamin

@bernatt But also don’t give multiple chances to people who show you they aren’t worthy of them. You can’t change him.

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bernatt

@nebjamin I’ll take that into account, omg thank u so much💕💕

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gavinakagriffin.

Know who your looking for in physical preferences as well as their characteristics and intentions with dating. And don’t move so fast if your looking for long-term, some in this community. Move faster then they lead on, which could mean some might persuade you if your not forward enough on boundaries or what your searching for. Some might even try to change your view point on your dating life in a negative way, so look for signs like that as well. Ways to tell, they’ll do small things like nod maybe their face looks a little annoyed, because you know what you want. And those people might have different intent based on that, a lot I know, but the more you go forward. The more these things are noticeable.

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smilebyal

Little respect can take you so far. Just be YOU!🔥

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fred.do

Just skip the atrocious small talks

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kings_world

Take everything with a grain of salt, the mantra that matters is “I don’t chase I attract”. But that’s NOT saying don’t put in effort! I just mean match vibes, be attentive to how people perceive you and what they would like with you. Dont overextend and most importantly, make connections and have fun!

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bernatt

@kings_world thank you so much for this advice babe💕 💕 i’ll take it into account

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