Putting physical traits to the side, what’s something that makes a man attractive to you?
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its-a-gabe
Humour, kindness, respect, and—this is extremely important—cooking ❤️
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woooisdelicious
What I like is the ability to be silly! I feel that a lot of people, myself included, don’t allow ourselves to be silly often!
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its-a-gabe
@woooisdelicious Very true! I can be very silly once I’m comfortable with someone, though. Don’t ask any of my exes 🤭 It’s a bit embarrassing!
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itsrobynrobin
Showing up, making an effort, being able to talk about emotions and work on themself 🫰🏼 extremely sexy also - going to therapy 😅
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juvenlee_surrealart
Being affectionate. There’s a sort of kind of confidence with affection. A lot of really good and great things all wrapped into one.
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southerncowrie
Laughter, whether it’s a “tehehehe”, cackle, or deep belly laugh I’ll melt 😂💛
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missdrakis
If he dances like he doesn’t give a fuck what people think about him on the dance floor. 🔥
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psychedelicprince
boldness, open with emotions, a decent relationship with parents/family
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nicholas.nudi
Good manners, situational tact, and a solid sense of humor
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eliaxelb
The presence, the calm, the warmth in the eyes. The aura. We are not our bodies — it is only one layer.
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Humor, rhythm, clarity, cooking skills.
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and3rs
Someone who’s good communicator and listener Someone with a great sense of humour Someone with ambition, drive and motivation Someone who’s fun and doesn’t take themselves too seriously Someone who’s emotionally, self aware, and has social awareness Someone who looks after themselves not only physically but mentally Someone who has rhythm (dances well too) Someone who’s confident, caring and kind …just to name a few
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jcp
Confidence
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ivjoel
Confidence, curiosity and 100% to mental health awareness!
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pachu
One who is considerate and respectful
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