jamie98 10 months

I need some good recommendations of gay romance books?

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carlito 10 months

No Apologies Necessary You apologized for being unromantic. And I said nothing. Missing our ride, you hugged me upon my late arrival. You explained how you freaked out when you didn’t see me on the tram. You looked around. You called my name. You thought you lost me. I was an idiot then. I thought I lost my card so I didn’t get on. But your reaction was pretty sweet. It was heartwarming. It was precious. Yet you apologized for being unromantic. Lying side by side, you asked me if I was happy. I nodded. “Very happy?”, you probed. I said yes, looked at you with smile carved on my face, and threw back the question. You said yes. “Very happy?”, I probed. You said no, looked at me with gloom painted on your face, and pointed out my departure. I felt a pain in my chest. You apologized for being unromantic. And now, I am saying something. Listen closely.

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

I am so proud of myself. 🏳️‍🌈

nahdire 11 months

Which unpopular opinion do you agree with the most? 🤓

shoyan 11 months

Anyone knows how to drop from 80 to 75 kg? I feel am stuck and cannot go down ( ideally I should be 70, but who cares )

jtree 10 months

If your shadow had its own personality, what would it look like? 👥

enrike 10 months

Now that I have a renter I’m spending money on stupid things. Anyway, what should I buy?

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axl 10 months

Men are hot and gorgeous and beautiful and complex… But also exhausting and flaky. This summer being single has been a summer of heartbreaks and yearning for unrequited feelings. We didn’t have an album or song of the summer because everything is just remnants of the seasons that have come and gone. Fall may seem like death but it’s also change.

chambley19 11 months

Workout friend required more the merrier

macaronimistress 10 months

My spirit is so truly broken

milly 10 months

every time I get bored and watch a couple of episodes of the Xfiles it is just so fucking funny dude. Like damn I know why the term shipping was invented because of those two. I mean, motherfucker, if y’all don’t kiss…

cleudenycoelho 11 months

Not many guys can handle the full-throttle energy of a Latin love. But if you can, mate… buckle up. It’s a wild, romantic adventure your taste buds will never forget. ❤️🔥

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carlito 10 months

Irreverence Sometimes, I imagine Amsterdam, As a leather-clad Dionysus, Just like how Tom pictured, With greek god physique, Subversive demeanour, And insatiable hedonism. In the dark alleys, Of that street we took Pride, I followed the shadows, Interacting and intertwined. Smoke from a fag, Veiled a bearded face, In carnal exaltation Of someone’s piping. Secrets of the night, Unraveling right in front Of a youthful soul, Whose identity is lost - Or merely yet to be discovered - In the wilderness Of a distant, foreign city. Coming (of age), One that is stunted, Cruising masked subcultures Of dom cap and sneakers. Emotions and socialisation, Clashed on this fleeting moment. Confused yet mesmerised, Questioning but intrigued. Sometimes, When I look back, To that formative period Of discovery and curiosity, I aspire for that irreverence To narrate my truth Of my chosen family to my own.

sdcs 10 months

Hope this place will become a new version of tumblr

dqantas 10 months

is there a temporary deactivate option @cal

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

I’m so sick of being single. 😒

rawbert 10 months

no shade, but dying for the option to mute oomf reposts… our tastes ain’t mixing babe

christto 10 months

Sweet on the outside, wicked on the inside — just like my Labubu

giallu 10 months

Don’t really know what I’m doing here but hey, why not give it a try

b-ryn 10 months

So many fine gentlemen on here 🙂‍↔️

zayn 10 months

todo list for tomorrow: - do henna - prepare 2 lessons - cook for the picnic - post on here some art again, especially the women who never speak yet know everything - work on the comic - exist perhaps ( optional ) - start a new book ( mandatory ) - draw new pants and sew them

valentin_xxs 10 months

another failed situationship ✅ Who's next in line?

piu-piu 10 months

Bitches be called Max Yet doing the bare minimum 😗

gore-galore 11 months

Since joining this app, have you had a new appreciation for how large the world is? Everyone on here is so different and from different places!

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strawbrry 11 months

sapphic show reco: The Hunting Wives 👯‍♀️🦌👀🍿

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pabllt 10 months

Guys, I had an interview today and I’m still in the process ✨ Let’s celebrate!

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zayn 10 months

Lately I have learned the strange posture of the lover: not of one person, but of the earth itself, of every being that breathes. I walk about as though carrying a vessel full, spilling its brightness with every step. My heart rests in love, swollen with it, steady with it, as though it were some untamed light pressing gently against the walls of me. What roots are these within me, seeking soil already waiting? What seeds are these, quiet in their husks, prepared for the rain that will draw them into the air? I am crowded with beginnings, my body a greenhouse of calm abundance, my chest a window opening to its own breath.

jtree 11 months

Dudes hit the gym after a breakup thinking their body is the issue. Homie you have the emotional intelligence and maturity of a door knob. Go to therapy.

yezan 11 months

I fr need more irrelevant gay stuff in my life like malin and goetz candles or a cool chair with architectural features that make it mildly uncomfortable

gore-galore 11 months

Together was emotional and really raised questions about how I feel relationships and the long term relationship I’ve been in. Weapons is a film that you need to see completely blind. Just amazing and fun.

donovan.dona 10 months

si los hombres son una basura, entonces yo soy un mapache.

apollo_noir 10 months

Happy “Everybody Scream” Day to all who celebrate.

frantonio 10 months

Todos tenemos a alquien que no tenemos.

juanda 11 months

“I realised I’ve never actually been on a date with myself.” Not the “treat yourself” kind. I mean sitting with myself no phone, no audience, no one’s eyes telling me who to be. Just me… with me. Most of my life, I’ve matched the people around me without even noticing. Their pace. Their mood. Their limits. And after a while, you forget what your own rhythm feels like. So I’m trying something new. I’m taking myself out to notice the way I look back at me, to find the version of me that doesn’t need anyone’s permission to exist. And maybe if I can believe in that person… I’ll finally stop living at their level, and start living at mine. -Juanda

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shg 10 months

My hobbies include: overthinking, forgetting to text back, and apparently not having enough friends. Who’s hiring?

bryceeee 10 months

Just a goof ball looking for another goof ball to be goof balls

gore-galore 11 months

Going to see Together AND Weapons today. And really want to rewatch Superman soon. ♥️ Sometimes life is okay.

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dthom 11 months

Where are the Black men? Drip a comment, I want to prioritize following you all first.✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽

omar455 11 months

The loneliness of self-discovery- why does growth often feel like losing people ?

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nico-laos 11 months

ok we’re close to the announcement of my first single as Nico Laos. ⭐️❤️ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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carlito 10 months

An Ode to Oomes I wanted to write an ode for you. I thought it goes well with your surname. Ode. Oomes. An ode to Oomes. It has been in my head for so long, awaiting to be written on a sheet of paper. Passionately scribbled for you to read. I have clearly conceived the words I would use. The picture I would paint. All the elements I would weave to chisel out the beauty I witnessed. What would it contain? Your Plato-like intelligence. I thought you were a descendant of ancient philosophers. Your Narcissus-like face. I thought you were drawn from mythological pieces. Your Adonis-like figure. I thought you were sculpted after iconic deities. I have never adored someone like this before. It must be the alcohol. It must be the x. Or I must be romanticizing everything about you. A fool in love, they say. A fool who made you infallible. I made you a saint. I made you a god. I made you unattainable. I made you perfect. I have never been so wrong. So I am not writing one. To correct my distorted view of you. This is not an ode.

alvo 10 months

Vamos por tacos 🌮

avatar.isaac 11 months

my fav nepotism baby is Tracie Ellis Ross

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lovestruck 10 months

Projection is the beat you mistake for your own. 🎶

abe 11 months

who do I NEED to follow on here

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jtree 11 months

What are the red flags you can spot right away on a first date? 🚩

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tylerzcol 11 months

Where do you normally go to meet other gay men?

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rombom 11 months

Maybe a very unpopular opinion, but I really dislike a polo shirt. I find most of them ugly & trashy . Anybody agree on this ?

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