beltran 10 months

estamos para las cosas que valgan la pena

maxu08 10 months

These fluctuating weather patterns from ☀️ to 🌧️ each day are giving me headaches

piu-piu 10 months

A hero to most A vilain to some

marionetti 10 months

ur mysterious someone stole me

nico-laos 10 months

I’mma start writing again a lot on here :) I just posted my new look and it’s not only about that, it’s about embracing my queerness after 2 years living in the city. I finally have some more courage to live as I am and to enjoy more the things that are coming towards me. Like music, people and fun. ⭐️

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pettygodmother 10 months

We’re going to fly away Glad you’re going my way I love it when we’re cruising together

lucm 10 months

I’m a type 1 diabetic with any insulin pump. Any fellow type 1s here?

mercury1585 10 months

Does anyone listen to katseye or itzy on here? If so we can be friends 😝

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okaza 10 months

🧑‍🎨Artists, where are you? Drop a comment – we don’t need thirst traps, we’ve got us. 💪

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howl 10 months

How often do u guys stretch? I’ve been doing these YouTube stretch routine by this cute guy named tom merrick yall tap innnn!!! My hamstrings have never felt worst :)

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piu-piu 10 months

Never not following my instinc again

christopherroy 10 months

“We Accept the Love We Think We Deserve.” -Stephen Chbosky I Think About This Often

matei 10 months

you know where all the hot guys are in london? ON BICYCLES. every single man I see on a bike 10/10. ten out of ten. how why I do not not know but I think I should be joining a cycling club not a running one, give it 2-3 years they will become the next thing mark my words

luisteixeira 10 months

We shouldn’t have time to think about something, thinking feeds the Flinch

earvind 10 months

I wish I was gayer

joelleclover 10 months

My vague situationship is back in town a week tomorrow…no idea how the next few weeks are gunna go.

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nahdire 10 months

Would you listen to a podcast witn two gay men talking and sharing their stories about how they grew up - traumas, misadventures, etc? But would leave the listener feeling like they went to a millennial group therapy? 😂

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shedrocks 10 months

i have no idea how to use this i guess gay flickr?

milly 10 months

I love being cringe and fandoms and conventions and furries. I love YouTubers and twitch streamers. I love sci fi. I love nerds. I love cosplayers and superwholock. I love trinkets and DVDs and excel spreadsheets.

oyejuan 10 months

Summer is over… so, what now?

nico-laos 10 months

any tips on love? I think I just witnessed my first heartbreak. I don’t wanna go into details but I lived love as much as I can and it was the best thing ever..but I think I maybe be too “enlightened” by it that I couldn’t prepare myself to whatever could happen. but I’m still glad to have the privilege to live it. My teenage self would be craving for it. ⭐️

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piu-piu 10 months

Date idea: I fall in love with your potential then block you.

luisteixeira 10 months

Here we are, in the coincidence of life. On the same ground, In the same warm air of this side of the world. Here we are, exchanging sincere glances — only for you to later exchange outward ones. Alcohol speaks for itself. Alcohol holds the courage you lack when sober and pulls you towards me. You held someone else, but your legs touched me as if to say: “I want this, but deep inside — where no one sees — I want that.” Your body longs for what you follow. Your soul stays behind, watching me. It forces you to touch me, even when you don’t want to. As if to say: “I rule myself, but I don’t control what I want.” The drink pulled you towards me, but you pulled away again and again the next day. It’s all right. People cross paths twice in life: the second time, either you’ll be ready, or I’ll be tired of waiting 📝: Me

jbroadwood 10 months

Guys I’m no longer having ONS. Celibacy for me I think

lav 10 months

Idk if it’s an American or generally a global problem but These grown men don’t act very grown.

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manueljplago 10 months

What’s your biggest turn-on? 👀

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abe 10 months

the way I need someone to do what capitalism does for innovation but to me

manueljplago 10 months

What’s your guilty pleasure?

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die 10 months

How do you give/receive love? What is your preferred love language?

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itsyayop 10 months

i absolutely need friends like real friends…

piu-piu 10 months

Just send me a DM stating why you want to marry me : I’m too lazy to use the date,get to know,friends feature here 🥹

zombieboi 10 months

Time to think about the Gym on my weight loss journey 🤔 Do I have a clue, like hell do I 😂 Need a gym buddy 🙈 😂

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taurupo 10 months

Drop your favorite songs atm! I need to branch out

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joelleclover 10 months

What have you done to PROTECT THE DOLLS today?

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nico-laos 10 months

ok in some days I’ll announce you know what.. I’m so excited

miguelescuela 10 months

“You’re not what I’m looking for” ~ then what is it that I’m missing? 🥲

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southerncowrie 10 months

If you could have 3 superpowers from any universe, what would they be? I’d have water bending (ATLA), ability to speak to animals AND insects (Dr. Dolittle), and Gentle Fist (Naruto)

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thnhdlng 10 months

Just in case you need this reminder today: You are always enough.

iamdarioblack 10 months

Whether you’re in a relationship, dating, or recently single, remember this: you don’t need anyone else to validate your feelings or your truth. That’s something only you can give yourself. Self-love is the strongest foundation you can have. Everyone has different perspectives. Your feelings about a situation may not be the same as someone else’s, and that’s okay. It’s not about who is right or wrong, it’s about what is right for you. Honor your truth. Choose what aligns with you. Keep loving yourself.

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apollo_noir 10 months

We’re all XL in God’s eyes.

sluticia 10 months

listening to paramore again after 10 years

thiagoess 10 months

Love podcasts, and I loooove anything music (making, listening, playing, etc.)…who else?

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gardelvelez 10 months

So I guess I’m welcome here :) Can someone walk me through this? 👀

moor 10 months

Every time I don’t use @collective for a while I’m like „should I keep it?“ only to come back and realise it’s the only social media that feels *normal* in the sense that I feel *normal* here. I love y’all

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piu-piu 10 months

One thing I don’t do is casual. You’re either my Spouse or you’re in the way.

piu-piu 10 months

People don’t want to contribute to your success they want to meet you there 👀

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

Anyone else struggling with extreme self-hatred?

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