piu-piu 10 months

Levelling up is lonely

pettygodmother 10 months

Disclaimer: I am a Libra, take all flirting with a grain of salt.

hmln_leo 10 months

I did a thing, a six hour exam at two am. I shall log off on all my devices now

zane-wynter 10 months

Anyone work in fashion? Let’s connect 💗

taurupo 10 months

Im following this one woman on here that is reposting so many men bc they are hot. She’s iconic with it, can’t even be mad.

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dre_djan 10 months

PSA: This user loves music, pins, photography, hikes, films, anime, literature and a good debate. He has a good heart but he honestly just gives excitable puppy. If that’s your vibe don’t be a stranger😆

hwl47 10 months

Just had my wisdom teeth removed but it was like proper surgery cause they were growing in sideways. I’m bored, give me fun things to do pleaseeee 🙏🙏 P.s for every fun thing someone suggest I’ll send a thirstrap ❤️

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rcm 10 months

Any musicians? What do you play?

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aresdefer 10 months

It’s 10am and I’ve had two cans of red bull. I may pass away.

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manueljplago 10 months

Labubu, yes or no? (That’s the real question) 👀

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aelindsay 10 months

Between My Hands and Yours I have learned how to ruin what is tender. It is a craft, like weaving, only backwards. Last night, the moon balanced itself on the rim of the bay. Even the tide seemed to hesitate Unsure in her ebb and flow Some people are rivers, Predictable and glimmering, But you are the black shelled water, On the floor of the bay I reach for your solidness Never certain How much longer I must hold my breath, If I will drink your sweetness Or be swallowed whole What is it about love that makes you sharpen your teeth?

handsome-villain 10 months

I am always alone, think need couple of gay friends, so we can go on adventure.

nico-laos 10 months

the way people see you when you change a lil bit of your aspect is insane. We still have so much work to do to be kind with each others it makes me so sad and hopeless

milly 10 months

RIP to all the “Taylor Swift is a lesbian” truthers lol

fdlr 10 months

can someone of you handsome men, recommend a light day cream?

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jvncito_13 10 months

“Sure, they can match your freak but can they match your yearn?”- TikTok video.

tayyeb 10 months

Anybody work in PR? Would love to connect!

gore-galore 10 months

My honeymoon phase with this app is over, and I really can’t stand opening it up and seeing people who only have pictures of their body.

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chandan 10 months

I ache to have you, perhaps even want to need you I could turn and leave you, yet you have tangled my heart I would set out to find you, but i am the veil that hides you Unfasten yourself and go, you are ensnared in my darkness.

southerncowrie 10 months

I whispered your name to the moon

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andyjo 10 months

i'm craving attention in a way that questions my self-mastery, woof.

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aaa.alessandro 10 months

Any recommendations for a summer read? 📚

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spencart18 10 months

Hey, sorry I haven’t posted a whole lot. I haven’t been making Collective appropriate art…😐

stparisx 10 months

just got accused of being fake (cuz I’m too beautiful) 🥶😎🙂‍↔️

theguysacha 10 months

Oh lord, please send me a frozen margarita and a lively dance floor.

alan_funes 10 months

I got too deep in my single era, now I don’t know how to get out 🪦🪦🪦

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donovan.dona 10 months

verdaderamente jamás confíes en 1 Psicoloco

kil 10 months

Why do I get the feeling I’m not hot enough for this app 😂

dressingfordrama 10 months

If I see one more gym photo 😴💤🥱

jonathanlm 10 months

The after maths of being a passionate kisser…Tongue!!!👅🤕

csg101 10 months

Is anyone watching housewives Miami or Orange County ?

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nico-laos 10 months

Helloooo how’s everyone? Don’t forget to take that f+kin minute to breathe and push that stress out⭐️🤞🏻 (Yeah today I had a stressful workday lol)

piu-piu 10 months

Mutually obssessed with each other or leave me alone

clarafischmann 10 months

I hate how people stare at me as if I just sprouted a pair of horns. Like, what’s their deal? People never saw someone covered in feathers before?

iamdarioblack 10 months

In solitude, we learn to love ourselves, not just the polished parts, but the messy ones too. Healing is not a straight line; it’s a journey, full of curves and pauses. We are everything: the joy and the sadness, the anger and the love. Every emotion that rises in us is simply energy moving through, like waves rolling in, like clouds drifting across the sky. And through it all, we can breathe. Just breathe. Inhale, and let life fill you. Exhale, and feel the relief that comes with release. With each breath, know this: life keeps unfolding, and it gets better, moment by moment.

muecasintetica 10 months

you made an effort.

vtodorov 11 months

Finding a partner nowadays especially in the queer community can be quite challenging, how do you stay positive and on track that one day you'll find "the one"? I'm genuinely curious because sometimes I seem to struggle with this 🥴 what keeps you going when it feels tough to meet the right person?

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travellingfive 10 months

If I get married and you are my friend, I will ask you to wake up 2:30AM to get ready for my wedding with a call time of 4:30AM. I want to say my vows in front of my husband as the sun rises to signal the new beginning that we will share forever.

enzohgalazzo 10 months

Personality trait: Being Blonde

lemonchiffon 10 months

where are all the thick boys here? in the sea of abs are are any guys with bellies? the none perfectly groomed and sculpted bodies.

jordonezz 11 months

Falling for your straight roommate… any advice on how to save the friendship and getting over him ?

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chambley19 10 months

How is everyone’s Monday?

aresdefer 10 months

I wish we could post videos on here because damn I was vibing to some tunes earlier.

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piu-piu 10 months

i like mine lovey dovey, touchy feely, kissy huggy.

polo 10 months

FUCK AI “ART”! Pick up a damn pencil and paper and draw stick figures, they will always be nicer than ai slop. If ai art has no haters, I’m dead.

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jamie98 10 months

Any country music fans on here?

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apollo_noir 10 months

Heading to FIP hungover. Pray for me.

here-lies-harry 10 months

I wrote someone about wanting to talk about where the friendship is going. It feels extra vulnerable to do this with a friend more so than if it were someone I was dating… but I think it’s worth it to preserve the closeness between us. The whole thing makes me feel both mature and juvenile at the same time.

aklaks 10 months

Biting your nails is cute if u let it 👏 - Bennie

jtree 10 months

If your last text message were your autobiography title, what would your book be about? Mine is “All good, perhaps another day”

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madebyhamza 11 months

soft launched my coming out to my pakistani dad 🤧🤧 and now i’m scared to go all the way tmrw when he’s coming to see me ❤️‍🩹

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here-lies-harry 10 months

Re: my last post. the talk went really well. i made several ugly crying faces but the feeling was mutual and we both had been trying to break the silence for months. 🥹❤️‍🩹

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