rk22 10 months

Can someone explain me how this works omg 🤡😂

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cam-the-merch-man 10 months

I move into a new apartment today! Yipeeeee

iamdarioblack 10 months

I’ve learned that people often see you through their own projections. And the truth is, you can’t control that. That’s where they are on their journey. What matters is where you are. I know myself more than I ever did before. I’ve healed a lot, and I’m still healing, because healing is a process. When someone thinks you’re saying or doing something you’re not, that’s not about you. It’s coming from their space, not yours. That’s when I discovered the real power: the power of being. The more present I am with myself, the clearer I see when others don’t see me as I am. And that’s okay. But here’s the key, just because it’s okay doesn’t mean you have to keep exposing yourself to that energy. Protect your peace. And always keep loving yourself.

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marc_o 10 months

How does this app works? Can somebody help me please? New to this lol

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milly 10 months

What the fuck happened to, I guess, light entertainment movies? Like idk 21 jump street, she’s the man, school of rock, napoleon dynamite. silly comedies with good actors. Quotable movies that everyone watched. A lost art honestly

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masc_y_medio 10 months

It’s going to be an absolute battle to get Ari tickets and I’m ready! ✨

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aadje 10 months

age gap in relationships... what is the maximum difference of years to realistically make it work?

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pettygodmother 10 months

One of my simplest pleasure is waking up to the Mourning Dove(s). Reminds me of my childhood when I didn’t need an alarm clock to make sure I started my day at a certain time.

localchamp 10 months

Just starting RHOP and my god !

piu-piu 10 months

Any news about Moo Deng? i hope she’s doing well. Why do we discard powerful women as they age?

leo_cast 10 months

It’s Friday night, it’s long weekend and I’m in bed already and I looove it 😌😌😌

lucienzera 10 months

is it normal to not feel like a full adult sometimes?

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hmln_leo 10 months

New rule. Empanadas only once a day!

lax 10 months

Crying becomes part of my routine now

lax 10 months

I don’t talk a lot because I feel like a lot of things I say needs to be censored

masc_y_medio 10 months

So what did we think about Sabrina Carpenters new album?

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kissland 10 months

you all are so hilarious ily 😝

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pettygodmother 10 months

I love going to work a 12 hour shift(Monday), ending up working a 14 hour shift. Then coming to work late the next days to break even(10 hours), only to work another 14 hours 🙃🫠 And to add insult to injury the reason I stayed late- the surgery team couldn’t stay late, for a SURGERY, for THEIR PATIENT 🥴🥴🥴 At least tomorrow is (my) Friday.

klyloh 10 months

Where are all the Iconic fashion and music people in LA? 🙂‍↕️

milly 10 months

Is Stephen Armell doing alright ? Realised I’ve not seen him on the convention circuit for a while, thought that was his only job tbh

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pepe 10 months

No buraco. De novo 🫠 🔝

ashhobian 10 months

Should I feel some type of way about being 33 and never having been in a relationship?

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thetrashwitch 10 months

A curated vibe? Love that

emirdcaprio 10 months

when would i finish this degree 🤯

cguese 10 months

Hello Collective! This app looks like fun!

maxxo 10 months

unique halloween costume ideas??

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razzle 10 months

I am so confused about this app have you guys made friends yet?

jamp 10 months

Just did an intense lower-body workout 😵‍💫 RIP my legs

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lovesheen 10 months

Anyone has watched Love, Victor? What can you say about it? Did you have similar experience? Love, Sheen

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pepe 10 months

In my retomando era 🙄😅

george 10 months

Thinking about fatherhood. Looking for additional resources. including a partner lol.

ojoaoneves 10 months

a little survey: what’s your attachment style? just out of curiosity ☺️

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kikepepa 10 months

“Breathe in peace, breathe out chaos.”

ant.small 10 months

U not supposed to understand me just enjoy the experience baby 😉

johansonjoel 10 months

One thing that keeps me amazed is the concept of snow cones

dmtr 10 months

I want to remind you that if you liked someone’s posts on their profile, decided to match with them, and you got a mutual match, your next step should be: “Hi (name), nice to meet you!” I know this might be a shock to some, but just give it a try! Have a wonderful day 🤍

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ant.small 10 months

TELL ME YOU AIN’T NEVER WANNA LOSE ME 😫🙏🏾🙏🏾

justben 10 months

First day of The Artist’s Way. 3 pages of thoughts with no filter - it was tough. Lots of issues to unpack, maybe a bit too much self-indulgent wallowing but I guess that’s to be expected for day one. Three months of this daily exercise should help clear the pipes and allow me to pull something useful out of myself. I just want to be more the driver, less the passenger. More active, less passive. I don’t want to hide from all the things that scare me. I wrote about how I’d like to be numb sometimes and immediately wrote about how guilty I felt for even thinking that, then that I should be more kind to myself, then that being too kind to myself is the source of the inaction that is frustrating me. Self-therapy in real time? I don’t know, but I feel some knots are at least being untied and I can try to knit the threads into something better.

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robertepiqueras 10 months

Dejé de mentirte, y justo te vas… - Javiera Mena

fancychansey 10 months

If one more person calls my pokemon mimikyu plushie that’s on my bag, a labubu, I will implode !! 😭

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brandonsevilla 10 months

Does anyone watch Big Brother? 🏠📹

zayn 10 months

i think i should post more finished artworks on here rather than just the process haha also i should post my face again, been some time

abdel 10 months

I tried and tried and tried some more Told secrets 'til my voice was sore Tired of empty conversation 'Cause no one hears me anymore

pettygodmother 10 months

I have to stop telling my girlfriends gay shit. I said I was going on a break from men so I deleted my Hinge, this bitch looked me dead in my face and said ‘But you still have Sniffies?’ I- 😮🫢 Anyway, I’m still looking for my jaw.

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milly 10 months

No one appreciates the restraint it takes for me to not just watch sucker punch, twilight and supernatural over and over and nothing else. Like sure, I love movies and DVDs and tv shows. But I also love those ones more than the rest and will never get tired of them so…

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piu-piu 10 months

Effort is the bridge between intention and connection

hmln_leo 10 months

Don‘t. Don’t date Boys from Down Under. They will text you ‘<<dude>> are you in London’ and eat unhinged meals like a can of tuna and a banana. Ciaoo

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locke-e 10 months

Loving you taught me there was so much more- The world I couldn’t see before. The darkness and all the light I would let in. Maybe it would have been grey- But at least you showed me the darkest sides of me.

vii_solar 10 months

Hii ! New here, how tf does this work ? 🥲

0beron_0restes 10 months

In hell, if there isn’t the type of people telling others they’ll go to hell for [insert smth every sane person would declare normal], it doesn’t sound that bad lol Lol like, “yeah sure I’ll got to hell but at least you won’t be there, or so you think”

just_cwl 10 months

About me: My name is Chris, I'm 20 and live in San Antonio TX. 5ft 11. Avid Tattoo lover, military family, workaholic. Looking for something long term, I don't like dating so get me off this app. I enjoy hiking, driving around town, and visiting new places. I will never turn down a movie night in. We could watch your favorite movie/show and I will ask a shit ton of questions. Camping on the beach??? 🌊⛺️We will match if you are taller than me and a little bit of Country never hurt nobody 🤠 Looking for my husband, maybe it's you. Apply using the link below. Socials: just _cwl

chandan 10 months

Thinking to make a “Talking stage pdf” to sort out actual date-able guys Any thoughts or recommendations for questions ?

justben 10 months

Making deeper connections in life requires us to be genuinely curious about other people. Pretty obvious, right? But how often do you approach the people in your life with something deeper than surface level small talk? What are the things we’re afraid of, that prevent us from getting deep? Is it the fear of being judged or rejected if we show too much of our true selves, or do we worry that others might find us insubstantial on closer inspection? We need to rid ourselves of these and other fears. Life is short and precious and we all deserve to be seen in all our glory and our insecurity with love. So consider this a PSA - if you’re feeling disconnected and craving authentic connection, ask more questions of the people in your life and encourage it of others. It doesn’t need to be an interrogation, it can be deep and fun or serious, emotional even. All it requires of you is imagination, understanding, respect and to try letting go of your fears about how it might go. I’m going to ask someone questions to the community, feel free to try them out in your offline life. ❤️

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