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I knew this generation didn't gaf when everybody stopped ironing
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take me on a walk.
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Sleeping late and then regretting it in the morning
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GM to the gentle folk. What’s on the mind today?
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Stephanie Meyer deciding that Carlisle Cullen, the Cullen father figure, was physically fucking 23 is dead ass so funny of her. Like yeah he’s the head doctor at the local hospital and also has ‘adopted’ several teenagers, 23 feels like a good age for him to be. Very inconspicuous and normal
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~todos los hombres igual~ ~all men the same~
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gay people are drunk at the club & like i miss my mommyyyyyyy (non-derogatory i love my mom!!)
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How to stop listening Andrea Bocelli 🤭
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nostalgia is just grief wearing perfume
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Is there a specific Industry where most of the guys interested in you seem to be involved in? Why is 1/4 guy I date a lawyer, a journalist,an architect or in polics? 😅😅😅
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Que el verano no terminé 🌊
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F*CK NORMAL I WANT MAGIC
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need some melanin on my timeline 🌚
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Next four months are about fitness and finances
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“Leave the ant on a leaf in Wisconsin and steal the map from Minnesota” —an actual email I sent today
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I love clingy. i love attention. i love double texts. i love affection. i love random calls. i love random paragraphs. i love gifts. i love love.
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Received a $400 gift card for referring a friend to work at my second job. Perfect timing because I need a serious dopamine boost. Food, CDs, books, and video games sound pretty fucking good right about now 🫠.
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Hey bb, Don’t leave the house without your main character energy.
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Also apologies if I’ve been insane posting more than usual, just got my period and get all the symptoms of PMDD. Prob should get diagnosed. Prob won’t
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Banned myself from watching supernatural on my period because I feel too maternal for Sam and Dean.
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I’m gonna have to tell my bosses that I cannot and will not go on a v important business trip to the US because I’m trans. I’m out at work but having to make my identity a team-wide logistics discussion is making me anxious 😵‍💫
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tired of seeing tank tops this fall let’s see yall have to wear shirts and try again👀
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Tried to flirt with a boy yesterday, and all I said was, “Here you go.” 🤦🏻‍♂️ He always gets lunch with his parents and he seems so sweet. I don’t even know his name.
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Trying to motivate myself to go for a jog on a cold, rainy, windy day. 🥶 What helps motivate you to maintain your health & fitness goals?
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As parts of my life fall apart, I find solace that’s it’s simply another chapter unfolding from the finger tip of my almighty writer. Thank you universe.
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Need attention like rn
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Pooja what is this behaviour?
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Need some artist mentor you feel Like show me HOW or inspire me thanks 😇
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I am one of those gays who did not really have much gay friends around them. I often have friends who dont understand what I am going through. Hope to make friends here and share common hobbies.
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When it comes to social media, are you more of a liker or a lurker? Why?
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Them going into literal heat, like “we have cat DNA” going into heat; in dark angel is so fucking insane hahahahaha. Girl, no wonder we’ve ended up with the omegaverse. Evil energy
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I hate when people say, “a rainbow is a promise from God, not a symbol of pride.” Like no gurl, it’s actually both.
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Let me be led by love
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I saw the most beautiful boy at work today. He’s everything I’m looking for. 💕
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Once my straight friend tried to say Jensen Ackles is a twink. We gotta gatekeep more man
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Had a nagging question: everyone says that they want to be their true authentic self. What if that’s simply a pointless statement when they haven’t examined whether they perceived their true self erroneously. Think this: an obnoxious gay guy can both be their authentic self but interrupting the public peace. Just some random thought that I put down here cuz my thinking needs an outlet. Not just my pictures.
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My gift to you is endless time. Profound thoughts And a creative mind My heart is for you. From the moment our eyes met To the summer I can’t forget. My voice will tell you everything. From the way I laugh Till the very last words I have left.
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Sometimes, love isn’t about staying together,it’s about seeing each other’s worth, even if that means going separate ways. When a relationship ends, it can hurt, but it’s also a chance to remember your own value. True love starts with knowing yourself. When you honor your worth, you stop settling for less than you deserve. Choosing yourself isn’t selfish; it’s courage. It’s about returning to yourself, loving yourself, and setting a standard that no one can shake. Breakups are painful, but they can also be powerful teachers. They remind you: your value isn’t determined by someone else, it’s always within you. And once you see it, nothing can make you forget it.
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quack about the artspam
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“Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.” – Dumbledore
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comment if you want me to draw u (I want to practice making portraits)
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Do you ever miss your twink days ?
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Tu libro favorito en comentario 👇 español only
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If nobody has told you yet today, the world is a better place with you in it
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best mlm books? love fiction (sweet romance type)
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a jack of all TRADE is a masturbator of none
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I think it’s an absolute slay that Halloween is on Friday this year
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appreciation post for this app. THANK YOU, this is heaven! 🍆
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a reminder of // the power of gathering // back to school season
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Do actual friendships come out of this app? 🤔
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Remember when fandom edits were dead ass just a slideshow on YouTube with backing music
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Sometimes we meet people on social media 🌐, and we give them our trust, our hopes, and a little piece of our heart 💌. We imagine they’re real, that they care, that this connection could be meaningful. But reality hits hard. 💔 In the beginning, their intentions are often clear if you really look 👀. They’re after their own interests, their own benefit, not genuine connection. And slowly, you start to see it… the truth behind the charming messages, the flattering compliments, the attention that seems too good to be true. Then comes the moment when the mask falls off 😷. They disappear, block you, and end the relationship as if it was never important. All the hopes you had? Wasted. All the energy you gave? Gone. And yet, it teaches you something: not everyone online is who they pretend to be. Thought of the day 😊
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Si la vida me diera otra oportunidad haría exactamente lo mismo !
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