benvstheuniverse 10 months

second time going to destin conrad’s concert and seeing handsome men, second time not doing anything about it 😭😭

._.dude. 10 months

Hey chat, asking for a friend what does it mean if a guy stops responding after the hookup? Is he waiting for me for a txt first ? Lmao asking for a friend ;-;

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shawnmendes 11 months

Decided on a whim that I wanted to host a holiday party at my tiny apartment in a few weeks and now I’m stressed lol. Why am I like this??

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pushkarovych 10 months

universe give me a sign that i’m on my path

eyeofpsi 10 months

So many hot people, yet they’re all so far away

dylpics 11 months

Back to the gym today after a few months (like 36 months). Send thoughts and prayers (and maybe some tips).

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mattbenjammin 11 months

Does anyone want to practice French with me? Quelqu’un veut pratiquer le français avec moi? 🇫🇷

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ismael-now 10 months

Sí mijo, calm down, breathe, hydrate, then win. 💅🏽📊💖

fabianmk 10 months

Heated Rivalry. Casting was obviously chosen for their great acting skills and outstanding 🍑 Thanks 🫡

saochiang 11 months

Second grad school app, submitted. Freaking out, but whatever happens, happens. Gonna research for other grad schools, but these were the two that were closest to what my goals are. Fingers crossed.

bartosz 10 months

I love discovering spicy X accounts from guys I know in real life 🫣

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judson 10 months

Ok but where are my bears at

lax 10 months

683 Feel tired the whole day… taking another day off tomorrow, finger cross I feel better tomorrow

oleks1i 10 months

I have depression and body dysmorphic disorder. I'm tired.

baldestbaddie 11 months

how are yall making gay friends? like am i missing a monthly meeting or something?

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lax 10 months

682 Back alive today…not looking forward to going back to boring old work though

._.dude. 11 months

And maybe if I sit out long enough in this crisp golden hour, perhaps the stinging kiss of frostbite will remind me of that blistering bliss that is your lips

ivans 11 months

¿Me propones algún plan improvisado?😝

lax 11 months

694 I’m getting really interested in learning about gymnastics specifically the rings, anyone knows where you can pick that up? I want to spin around and do all those turning things just for fun

jamesiii 10 months

Heated Rivalry asserts a core tenant of critical (m)ass theory: No matter what position you play — forward, center, top, bottom, goaltender, vers, defensemen, or even side— you MUST have a big, fat ass.

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lax 10 months

691 Went for a stretching/physio session today, so I’m gonna sleep like a baby tonight, I hope.

maxijane 10 months

Being single is fun until you realize you’re still single 😫

paolosal97 10 months

I have too many crush on this app 😮‍💨🔥

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timmy_tamz 11 months

Hey Germany whatever happened to chocolate WITHOUT hazelnuts?!

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nico-laos 11 months

I started writing poetry on my tiktok vids (lol) should I write those words here too?

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sailormars 11 months

“If 2 people can sing the same tune, they’ve realized they have something in common” Yo-Yo Ma.

strawbrry 10 months

crushing on my pole teacher 🙂‍↕️😶

shinbin 11 months

What happens when you scream into the abyss and the abyss screams back? Asking for a friend.

haydn-bardoe 11 months

I know we all joke about this idea of ‘twink death’ but anyone else find the idea of like aging and “appearing or becoming a man” kinda scary?🙈 And for those who have had that transition already, any advice? 😅

saochiang 11 months

Finishing up my second grad school application, still waiting to hear back from the first one. 😖😖😖

datboi_ash 10 months

Why can’t I find you?

datboi_ash 10 months

Uk what working for a smoothie place won’t be so bad if a good looking men comes 🫠

tarbarsam 11 months

Dear Future Wife, That’s it! You’ll never see me young. I was sure I looked pretty decent. At least I don’t have any gray hair. I bragged about it to anyone who’d listen, but today I thought—how do I even know I don’t have gray hair? When was the last time I checked? I rushed to the mirror and guess what? I do. I do have gray hair. Not just one or two, I found the third one in my beard. God knows how long they’ve been there! I mean, I can still pretend they’re not gray, just shiny. But I’ll have to accept it soon. And so will you. You’ll never see me young, my dear. You’ll have to love me for my inner world, for my soul, for who I am, and all this bullshit. Please, hurry up. Who knows what life can do to my soul and how long I will stay the same. Yours, In the future

lax 10 months

684 Fell sick and couldn’t go in for work today...haven’t felt this mellow in such a long time..

mattbenjammin 10 months

I’m not feeling well today, fellas. 😢

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unboxitabe 11 months

Have you ever ghosted anyone and why?

grantandroman 10 months

Hey guys me and my partner are new to this and was thinking this would be a great way to make friends anyone willing to show us the ropes?

priyesh 11 months

Had pancreatitis flare up. Breaths are heavy. Today is fifth day of recovery. Surviving on good will, Medicines and love. No motivation to get out of bed But carousel never stops turning.

alvo 11 months

Drop an emoji ⬇️ and I’ll tell you a random fact about me 👋🏼

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sailormars 11 months

There’s no better approval than the one you can provide to yourself. Your self perception changes when you learn how to invest in yourself. Use your thoughts to praise, and love yourself.

sailormars 11 months

For people understanding their relationship patterns: Did you grow up with too much attention, intrusion or sadly too much violation? → (Avoidant attachment) Or did you grew up with neglect, abandonment or loneliness? → (Anxious attachment) In life we need both freedom and stability, and undestanding what you need will help you pick a partner that matches your needs.

sailormars 10 months

Don’t confuse love for attention. One feels like lightning the other feels like connection. One is electric the other one is magnetic. One feels like chasing the other feels like contention. Don’t confuse love for attention.

piu-piu 11 months

My softness use to scare me Now it’s the other way around I’m afraid of how damaging I can be once scorned

avery-ren 11 months

I’ve been beyond excited to see Wicked pt2 for a year, but with all the recent adds of so many big companies collaborating to put out Wicked themed things- It’s reeeally put me off?? Big capitalism and money grubbing like that is gross to me. That’s coming from an ex retail worker tho- you see the worst side of capitalism there.

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piu-piu 11 months

I think I finally understood why I will never fall in love : once anything makes me question this sense of “it was meant to be” I’m struck with the indifference of banality And banality is cherisable to but that’s not Love

breadhubby 11 months

As someone who hates musicals I did enjoy wicked part 1, hopefully wicked 2 is nice too

avery-ren 11 months

I need a fresh hair cut so I can feel confident again 😫

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austinsdalley 11 months

Making out with someone to the crescendo of Divinize is an other worldly experience and I highly recommend

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nico-laos 11 months

People are making fun of me cause I didn’t know the wicked story before the film lol. But they don’t understand that musicals in italy are not a thing and it’s kinda of a privilege even having the film in the original language.. btw we shouldn’t judge people for their ignorance in pop culture because there’s SO MUCH to discover yet.

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sierramichhh 10 months

May all my haters become my waiters when I sit at the table of success 🗣️

dendendenden 10 months

Life happens when you’re not looking

donovan.dona 11 months

the greeks had Plato and y'all have me !

michael-m 11 months

And I couldn’t help but wonder… how would any of us fare in a nuclear winter as Mother Russia starts dropping her bombs???

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