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I love everyone on their new years resolution shit but I neeeeeeed the gym to empty out😫😫
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I want to post songs but I don’t have Spotify! Why is Spotify the standard??
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ALHAMDULLILAHHHHHH ACING AN EXAM U WERE SCARED ABOUT FEELS THE BEST
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If it ever snows here in Philly again I’m moving to mars. 😂🙈
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This is a Serena Williams, Naomi Osaka, and Coco Gauf stan account. In the words of Issa Rae “I’m rooting for everybody black”
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I’m 97.99% sure that a 5 year coma will fix my life… but a nice one where you dream.
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Hair wash day on Thursday pray for me yall
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So there are literally no cool parties anymore in London? I understand there’s “feel it” but it’s closed in this period! And why everyone in heaven is underage or a straight woman?! 🥲
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My problem is I think I’m both hilarious and hot, even tho my dating history (or lack there of) would suggest otherwise.
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Did you play in the snow? ❄️🌨️🎿🏂⛄️☃️🍧
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The guys here are so ripped what the hell. TEACH ME YOUR WAYS!!
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If you love me, won’t you let me know?
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I’m gonna take mine of you with me
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Any Old School Runescapers? 🤓🗡️🔮🧚🏻‍♀️🧟‍♂️
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Consistency feels rare in dating, and I honestly don’t have it in me to go through another week-long talking stage that just fizzles out.
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Warmth of the morning sun on a cold morning… bliss
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dating culture in Australia is pretty bad!
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Your favourite independent brands? 🫶✨📩
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RANDOM THOUGHTS #9 "I should be paid by Grindr for reporting all of these scam profiles and keeping their app clean, while being disrespected by most of the real users on there. Maybe it's time to delete this app once and for all. ... should I get a dog instead?"
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Tattoo session round 2 tonight.
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I ♥️ being a 31 year old teenage girl.
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Catching someone smiling at their phone is one hell of a wholesome moment
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Sober dreams are absolutely nuts
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Got a soul as sweet as blood red jam
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im bored. send ‘em 📸
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Loved to see all your original crop pics 😏 DM open
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Snowstorm and a 3 day weekend, don’t disturb me im gaming
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Before he died, he wanted to listen to Depeche Mode. Have you ever wondered who you would have been in the 90s? Where you would have danced, who you would have loved, what you would have survived, as a gay man. Today I read that scientists in Amsterdam have successfully used CRISPR to cut HIV out of infected cells. Completely. A clean incision through decades of fear. A disease that didn’t just kill bodies but it erased futures. Around one in nine of us. Friends. Lovers. Mentors. Men who should still be here. So this isn’t just a scientific victory. It’s a moment of light breaking through a long, dark corridor. Let’s honour the era. The music. The rooms where we learned to touch, to resist, to exist. And let’s remember those who didn’t make it to see this day while Depeche Mode plays softly in the background.
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The best part of working out when it's freezing outside is the walk back home, you're so hot and warm from exercising that the walk doesn't feel bad!
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To be fr…. Im skeptical of some ppl on here… iykyk
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We need voice memos on here I need yall to read my posts in my voice
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Stop putting your ig in your dating profile if you’re private !!!! I want to snoop !!!
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God forbid a man be a little immature sometimes 🙄
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Was having a bad day and the gods brought me charity shop vintage YSL and Paul Smith which fits me like a glove 🙂‍↕️
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Two thoughts, neither related to the other 1) Who here remembers Mob Wives? 2) Was making soup and let the Parmesan rind simmer…yall it did something amazing🥵
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the job hunt is kicking my ass what the fuck is wrong with companies
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Does the concept of tweens even exist anymore ?
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642 It’s amazing how much one person can influence another’s life… The way I value myself and know my worth now all stems from how he saw mine.
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Pick yourself up girl, it’s not deep
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I loveeee drag names bc what do you mean your name is penny nicole dime
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at rock bottom. been here so many times i’ve started carving my name in the stones. but at least when I look up thats all there is. up. and its the only place left to go
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Law roach is dressing lauren sanchez and someone loaned last season’s schiaparelli to maga nicki minaj. Start the rapture !!!
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Any bulking tips? Wanna try bulking till summer (for the first time😵‍💫)
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Newer to sf would love to make a friend group here. Let’s chat 🙂.
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Euthanasia is a pretty name for a girl
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639 Did some pattern making with my good friend… so a step towards progress
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Happy Monday…what’s the plan this week…?
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Let’s make music fun and not a yawn sesh.. give me distortion give me noise in the background, give me chaos Because everyone needs a little bit of chaos in their life if not then you’re just sitting still and being boring 🫠 a good example of this ‼️ i’m not saying that slow easy-going music is terrible but for me this year I’m craving excitement and adrenaline Who can agree?
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RED WHITE AND ROYAL BLUE IS COMING BACK BABY ITS TIME TO GO FROM THE COTTAGE TO THE BALLROOM
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I hope you know you’re not alone
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Fun fact: I had an appointment to get a septum piercing but they told me my nose isn’t a good candidate for septum piercing. So I went to plan b and got a nostril piercing. Woe.
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iguanas freeze and fall out of the trees when it’s cold im sick
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Ate a chocolate chip cookie, life is good again 🩷
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People in an open relationship who still date are greedy. I also think that if you’re in an open relationship, you should only date people with the same mindset as you.
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You don’t know the world like I do // you don’t know how good ppl can be
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