gavinakagriffin. 8 months

My new mindset. Fuck corrupt people of all kinds. Negativity doesn’t benefit, it destroys. I can trust more people, not everyone. But I can have more faith and optimism. Love and authentic human nature is key to a genuine open heart. Be gentle to self, and love yourself like your future love. Good community impacts mental health as well as physical health. Be kind, it costs nothing. It also makes our world safer.

unboxitabe 8 months

Is there any bears up in this app ?

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cosmic_22 8 months

Happy Halloween to all ^^

unboxitabe 8 months

What’s everyone’s favorite horror movie?

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bryan-tino 8 months

People talk about love bombing but what about affection bombing? Like when you’re getting to know a guy & he’s affection bombing you calling you cutie, beautiful etc only to later ghost you. I feel like it creates a false sense of intimacy. Just call me by name until we’re together then you can spoil me with all the affection.

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brad 8 months

After so many years of constant anxiety, uncertainty, and reflection, I’ve finally figured out the job that I want to do.

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tkshk 8 months

i don’t knowww :( this ui is confusing and the font is weirdly proportioned. all love tho.

waf 8 months

The more I find out about Mark Harper… 👀😬🏃‍♂️💨

yoyobaerry 8 months

Who else is turning to Collective coz Grindr and Tinder are not it?

hawkanderson 8 months

Had to overcome internalized homophobia to receive the joy of wearing nail polish 💅

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bryan-tino 8 months

Embarrassment is an under explored emotion. Go out there & make a fool of yourself.

rainbowwarrior 8 months

Got a Halloween costume?

lax 8 months

Got new shoes 😍 Can’t wait to wear them 713

axl 8 months

Note to self: Practice kindness. Not just with others but with yourself too.

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kwazzx 8 months

hai im bored guys

axl 8 months

This year has been so good to all the people I love. And I’ll champion that.

hamal 8 months

I definitely believe the man I marry will likely be from a foreign country.

lax 8 months

Just going through another day Time makes no difference 720

sailormars 8 months

Stop thinking for other people and start reading cues. The answers are in front of you!

bryan-tino 8 months

I saw a quote somewhere that said it’s not about acting masculine or feminine. It’s about acting & whew I felt that.

bbkregg 8 months

november is my month ♐️♐️ big sag szn

xanie 8 months

Need to go study but my bed is so warmmmm

tkshk 8 months

I fear I am only becoming more pretentious as time goes on someone should date me before I am entirely unapproachable

serenawilliams 8 months

okay i’m in double digits woohoo. and my average sober streak for 2025 went from 12 to 13 days. next goal is to make it to day 13. 😇

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sailormars 8 months

If you’re gay, don’t listen to this. You’ll be gayer

sailormars 8 months

If you’re gay, listen to this.

byjoshjames 8 months

When does fall happen in LA? Asking for a friend. 🤎🍁🍃

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byjoshjames 8 months

The nation is showing up! 💙Thank you to everyone who voted for progress, equality, unity, and affordability. When we fight, we WIN!

aquaalaa 8 months

Kiss kiss kiss all the boys on your list list list

pach 8 months

I’m pretty sure love sounds exactly like 0:30 sec of “Feel so close” by Calvin Harris ❤️

cuttothechase 8 months

I can’t upload photos here anymore 😑

zander 8 months

I turned down a part 2 interview because I ACTUALLY feel fulfilled at the job I have…..that’s so insane, who am I?

mauriciom 8 months

What is your favorite gay book of all time?

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christianmodel4all 8 months

The dark scares me someone should save me 😭🖤

mikevi 8 months

I was told “You have to put yourself out there if you want to be found.”. So, im going to give it a shot. I figure a good start would be to try to post something everyday. Hi!

mxaddo 8 months

Wait… Berghain is INSANE

andreee 8 months

30 is that age where you meet up for lunch with your college friend who’s in town and she’s telling you all about her 3-year-old kid who’s so excited to celebrate Halloween next week meanwhile you’re gay and low-key starting to panic because you still haven’t found a Halloween costume FOR YOURSELF

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unboxitabe 8 months

Hi guys I am also a small independent artist and I wanna share my song with yall it’s call earworm

millatte 8 months

The Alto section is whiteness protection for sopranos. 👀👀

temporaryboyfriend 8 months

Shows/movies with great soundtracks?

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papermalachite 8 months

Today is definitely the kind of day to be on the sofa, covered up with a blanket or duvet, and a nice cuppa. Maybe some Netflix. ☕️🛋️📺🥰

unboxitabe 8 months

What’s your go to sushi order because I lowkey wants some

maksklin 8 months

Guys is there maybe a photographer (fashion) in Warsaw, I’m looking for u i need u)))

kivionthebeat 8 months

considering changing my legal surname, no longer want to be associated with my biological father 🙃

benvstheuniverse 8 months

so how do you make friends here 😋

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bryan-tino 8 months

If you’ve ever felt the need to leave a negative/nasty comment on someone’s social media post because you didn’t agree with what they posted, we’re incompatible as friends or partners.

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bryan-tino 8 months

It baffles me that guys will ask for my ig or no at the club & after, that will be the most effort they’ll put into the convo. Like why even bother??

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