feyi 8 months

Fuck gay men fr😂 we really the worst in the alphabet

unboxitabe 8 months

Omg I just realized I am about to hit 200 followers on here 🥹 thank you guys for the follow 💜🧡💜🧡💜🧡

littleowl 8 months

@cal I left Spotify a while ago because of lack of pay for artists. Now they are promoting ICE ads and refuse to stop. Is there a way to or is it in the works to get a different music integration? 🤞🏻

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temporaryboyfriend 8 months

You get picked up for a date and they ask you to play music…what are you playing?

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frafrabia 8 months

Can I ask you a question… What do you value most at this present stage of your life?

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piu-piu 8 months

Do you sometimes go on dating apps, swipe and although people are attractive nobody does it for you?

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kaycee0660 8 months

How have I had four energy drinks and still tired 😭

jude_mudau 8 months

i need thoughts on the show “Boots” NOW!!!

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guesswhosjack 8 months

Where are my Grand Designs fans at? I want to build a cabin in the woods à la last weeks show 🪵

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lax 8 months

Off to a hectic Monday 716

benvstheuniverse 8 months

my endgoal really is a lavender marriage with my favorite lesbian 😩

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kingbabyp 8 months

I had a dream that I fell in a ditch, but my booty was too fat to pull me out of it.

ilikecatsalot 8 months

la/long beach queers what are we doing for halloween and where do i get an invitation?🧍🏾

niccoloserratt 8 months

Ever start hating eggs all of a sudden and even the thought makes you nauseous? Other high protein breakfast ideas?

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alex 8 months

seared bavette over avocado caesar greens, with crispy smashed potatoes and a gorgonzola crumble 🍸

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grabari 8 months

Roisin Murphy coming out as a flaming TERF and full on transphobe is heartbreaking. I’ve been a fan for almost 20 years, her music was a soundtrack of many memorable moments of my life, had a pleasure to interview her and now what? How to separate art from the artist? I guess I need to illegaly download her music instead of streaming it on Spotify…

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adriansamuel 8 months

I feel like it’s my first day of school lol

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piu-piu 8 months

Why do I always end up wondering if I really liked the people I dated or if I was just being nice?

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benvstheuniverse 8 months

challengers daughter or call me by your name son?

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strawbrry 8 months

patiently waiting for all the Gay Halloween costumes to take over my feed 🙇‍♀️

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jarrodt83 8 months

The goal is to have a productive Sunday.

hashtagraymondw 8 months

How do you approach to your gym crush 🫣 Asking for a friend

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jbroadwood 8 months

How do people actually meet people. Like do people meet others in the real world anymore??

josepaw 8 months

Oh ooh, getting a haircut now :(

sierramichhh 8 months

Why did it just occur to me today that I could be using the timer to take gym progress photos instead of holding the phone……🤡

soupwaylee 8 months

the best thing about wearing a mask during your flight is that it catches your saliva if you drool in your sleep

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helloitsgui 8 months

Anyone watching RuPaul’s Drag Race UK?

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lax 8 months

Today felt just like magicarp splashing and flailing around, struggling outside of water 727

avatar.isaac 8 months

my ass randomly ending up in basement in my business casual fits when others get rejected with baddie fits needs to be studied 🤣

michenoble 8 months

I moved out of my parents house today (2nd time but going to last longer in the wild this time)

connor-ordonez 8 months

Slowly but surely getting out of my creative rut . . . any tips/advice?

curated_by_marc 8 months

“The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.” Excerpt From A Farewell to Arms Ernest Hemingway

tordde 8 months

where are the fat people

timosworld 8 months

REAL TALK #12 "Gay men like to keep it casual. They tell themselves they prefer things light: casual dates, no labels, no pressure. It looks like freedom, but it also stops anyone from getting too close. The reason: closeness still feels tied to rejection. Keeping things casual protects them from risking vulnerability and from letting someone see the parts of them they still fear are not good enough. I'm over this. I have done my homework. Talking to guys who haven't frustrates me, cause I know that I can't do their homework for them."

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xanie 8 months

Does anyone else feel so fucking far behind

nateriviere 8 months

what’s everyone being for Halloween 👀

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serenawilliams 8 months

in bed. 21:04 on a friday. safe and victorious. i promise i won’t turn my whole feed into recovery updates, but anyone who’s been through it knows how tough the first weeks can be. no idea how i managed to stay composed — and even thrive — at work this week. kept my ping pong winning streak alive too, with beers flowing all around me. 4 days strong. good night. 💤

sebastianbosc 8 months

The way you would win me over with a massage

saochiang 8 months

Making beef stew and watching the original Sailor Moon series. Stew aside, this is gonna take a more than a weekend to finish the whole series. Gotta love catching up with childhood nostalgia you didn’t have growing up. 😅

aresdefer 8 months

I’ve decided I’m dying my hair black this time. I’m ready to look like the grudge.

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colbymitchell 8 months

Sweat this shit out

piu-piu 8 months

I want my first child within 10 years

alexah 8 months

I just found out about this text feature im about to become insufferable

tokyoty 8 months

I can’t wait to be in a relationship, i just wanna man that’s honest and who’s skin i can be in🤭

itsjacobedmonds 8 months

I want to celebrate Halloween next year with a boyfriend. 👻🎃

clownpup 8 months

halloween this year is such a bust ngl but ima try to make the most of it

skhathisomusa 8 months

I find myself thinking “no wonder you’re single” about so many people because they are so mean. life is not a devil wears Prada movie, treat people like actual people and not avatars in your scene. makes you ugly in my eyes being mean for no reason.

donovan.dona 8 months

México es un rancho.

type.a.hippy 8 months

I need some new are for my gallery wall. Drop your IG/websites! Would love to support Collective artists

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die 8 months

How does “me time” look like for you?

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sierramichhh 8 months

like why am I fully under the blanket but must have my knees sticking out

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pach 8 months

we could be nice to each other wrong for each other right for each other and rise to each other

tip 8 months

Sigh* my pockets are hurting so bad 😭😭😭

autumnexpected 8 months

Halloween costume: devil with black wings and horns with a crown of black flowers. So for the gay dance party...is the vibe red or...all black?

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