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In life, we need to stop loosing our minds over people who don’t mind loosing us. 💅🫶🏼
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Seasonal depression’s making me super anxious over being single right now and thinking too much about the future ://///
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Embarrassment is an under explored emotion. Go out there & make a fool of yourself.
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okay i’m in double digits woohoo. and my average sober streak for 2025 went from 12 to 13 days. next goal is to make it to day 13. 😇
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Just wondering if you have any tips for vegetarians/ vegans that would love to gain some healthy weight or muscles.
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Had an extremely quiet Monday, in a good mood 709
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expect less and you’ll get more. expect nothing then anything is a blessing
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After so many years of constant anxiety, uncertainty, and reflection, I’ve finally figured out the job that I want to do.
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Im so done with dating! i think i dont have luck anymore on dating. will be stay with the cats, dogs and goats 🥲
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hand on the throttle, thought I caught lightning in a bottle
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They Say: There’s no rush to love Just long nights Read texts And missed dates.
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Is there any bears up in this app ?
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Say no to bare minimum. You deserve more
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"Hurt an artist and you'll see masterpieces of what you've done"
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So many hot boys on here. Say hi!
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Happy Halloween to all ^^
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30 is that age where you meet up for lunch with your college friend who’s in town and she’s telling you all about her 3-year-old kid who’s so excited to celebrate Halloween next week meanwhile you’re gay and low-key starting to panic because you still haven’t found a Halloween costume FOR YOURSELF
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Halloween is this Friday !!! What are the plans?
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I saw a quote somewhere that said it’s not about acting masculine or feminine. It’s about acting & whew I felt that.
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Sundays are for Sunday dinners with grandma and good o’ Zeus Sundays at night 🥰
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Note to self: Practice kindness. Not just with others but with yourself too.
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I definitely believe the man I marry will likely be from a foreign country.
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i don’t knowww :( this ui is confusing and the font is weirdly proportioned. all love tho.
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Al no sentirte carente de nada, lo atraes todo ✨
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I turned down a part 2 interview because I ACTUALLY feel fulfilled at the job I have…..that’s so insane, who am I?
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hai im bored guys
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i don’t think any more mental acrobatics can convince me to enjoy 8:00 on a sunday workouts.
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Is it the spooky season an important event for LGBT+ community? What do you guys think about it?
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What is your favorite gay book of all time?
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Wait… Berghain is INSANE
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Got a Halloween costume?
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I’m pretty sure love sounds exactly like 0:30 sec of “Feel so close” by Calvin Harris ❤️
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My new mindset. Fuck corrupt people of all kinds. Negativity doesn’t benefit, it destroys. I can trust more people, not everyone. But I can have more faith and optimism. Love and authentic human nature is key to a genuine open heart. Be gentle to self, and love yourself like your future love. Good community impacts mental health as well as physical health. Be kind, it costs nothing. It also makes our world safer.
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My life would be so much better if I owned a casserole dish 🥘
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Today is definitely the kind of day to be on the sofa, covered up with a blanket or duvet, and a nice cuppa. Maybe some Netflix. ☕️🛋️📺🥰
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so how do you make friends here 😋
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@cal I left Spotify a while ago because of lack of pay for artists. Now they are promoting ICE ads and refuse to stop. Is there a way to or is it in the works to get a different music integration? 🤞🏻
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Need to go study but my bed is so warmmmm
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The more I find out about Mark Harper… 👀😬🏃‍♂️💨
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If you’ve ever felt the need to leave a negative/nasty comment on someone’s social media post because you didn’t agree with what they posted, we’re incompatible as friends or partners.
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How have I had four energy drinks and still tired 😭
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Do you sometimes go on dating apps, swipe and although people are attractive nobody does it for you?
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Why do I always end up wondering if I really liked the people I dated or if I was just being nice?
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Stop thinking for other people and start reading cues. The answers are in front of you!
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This year has been so good to all the people I love. And I’ll champion that.
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