lax 9 months

Just going through another day Time makes no difference 720

bryan-tino 10 months

It baffles me that guys will ask for my ig or no at the club & after, that will be the most effort they’ll put into the convo. Like why even bother??

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byjoshjames 9 months

When does fall happen in LA? Asking for a friend. 🤎🍁🍃

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kivionthebeat 10 months

considering changing my legal surname, no longer want to be associated with my biological father 🙃

soupwaylee 10 months

the best thing about wearing a mask during your flight is that it catches your saliva if you drool in your sleep

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alex 10 months

seared bavette over avocado caesar greens, with crispy smashed potatoes and a gorgonzola crumble 🍸

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unboxitabe 9 months

What’s your go to sushi order because I lowkey wants some

guesswhosjack 10 months

Where are my Grand Designs fans at? I want to build a cabin in the woods à la last weeks show 🪵

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benvstheuniverse 10 months

challengers daughter or call me by your name son?

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cuttothechase 9 months

I can’t upload photos here anymore 😑

lax 9 months

Felt unproductive even though, I’ve done all the chores needed for the weekend 712

byjoshjames 9 months

The nation is showing up! 💙Thank you to everyone who voted for progress, equality, unity, and affordability. When we fight, we WIN!

frafrabia 10 months

Can I ask you a question… What do you value most at this present stage of your life?

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benvstheuniverse 10 months

my endgoal really is a lavender marriage with my favorite lesbian 😩

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aquaalaa 9 months

Kiss kiss kiss all the boys on your list list list

bbkregg 9 months

november is my month ♐️♐️ big sag szn

temporaryboyfriend 9 months

You get picked up for a date and they ask you to play music…what are you playing?

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jude_mudau 10 months

i need thoughts on the show “Boots” NOW!!!

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hashtagraymondw 10 months

How do you approach to your gym crush 🫣 Asking for a friend

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feyi 9 months

Fuck gay men fr😂 we really the worst in the alphabet

millatte 10 months

The Alto section is whiteness protection for sopranos. 👀👀

helloitsgui 10 months

Anyone watching RuPaul’s Drag Race UK?

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strawbrry 10 months

patiently waiting for all the Gay Halloween costumes to take over my feed 🙇‍♀️

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adriansamuel 10 months

I feel like it’s my first day of school lol

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michenoble 10 months

I moved out of my parents house today (2nd time but going to last longer in the wild this time)

christianmodel4all 9 months

The dark scares me someone should save me 😭🖤

maksklin 10 months

Guys is there maybe a photographer (fashion) in Warsaw, I’m looking for u i need u)))

jbroadwood 10 months

How do people actually meet people. Like do people meet others in the real world anymore??

temporaryboyfriend 9 months

Shows/movies with great soundtracks?

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avatar.isaac 10 months

my ass randomly ending up in basement in my business casual fits when others get rejected with baddie fits needs to be studied 🤣

lax 9 months

Got new shoes 😍 Can’t wait to wear them 713

tkshk 9 months

I fear I am only becoming more pretentious as time goes on someone should date me before I am entirely unapproachable

lax 10 months

Today felt just like magicarp splashing and flailing around, struggling outside of water 727

unboxitabe 9 months

Hi guys I am also a small independent artist and I wanna share my song with yall it’s call earworm

serenawilliams 10 months

in bed. 21:04 on a friday. safe and victorious. i promise i won’t turn my whole feed into recovery updates, but anyone who’s been through it knows how tough the first weeks can be. no idea how i managed to stay composed — and even thrive — at work this week. kept my ping pong winning streak alive too, with beers flowing all around me. 4 days strong. good night. 💤

sailormars 9 months

If you’re gay, listen to this.

sailormars 9 months

If you’re gay, don’t listen to this. You’ll be gayer

alexah 10 months

I just found out about this text feature im about to become insufferable

mikevi 9 months

I was told “You have to put yourself out there if you want to be found.”. So, im going to give it a shot. I figure a good start would be to try to post something everyday. Hi!

kingbabyp 9 months

I had a dream that I fell in a ditch, but my booty was too fat to pull me out of it.

unboxitabe 9 months

Omg I just realized I am about to hit 200 followers on here 🥹 thank you guys for the follow 💜🧡💜🧡💜🧡

sierramichhh 10 months

Why did it just occur to me today that I could be using the timer to take gym progress photos instead of holding the phone……🤡

timosworld 10 months

REAL TALK #12 "Gay men like to keep it casual. They tell themselves they prefer things light: casual dates, no labels, no pressure. It looks like freedom, but it also stops anyone from getting too close. The reason: closeness still feels tied to rejection. Keeping things casual protects them from risking vulnerability and from letting someone see the parts of them they still fear are not good enough. I'm over this. I have done my homework. Talking to guys who haven't frustrates me, cause I know that I can't do their homework for them."

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saochiang 10 months

Making beef stew and watching the original Sailor Moon series. Stew aside, this is gonna take a more than a weekend to finish the whole series. Gotta love catching up with childhood nostalgia you didn’t have growing up. 😅

niccoloserratt 10 months

Ever start hating eggs all of a sudden and even the thought makes you nauseous? Other high protein breakfast ideas?

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connor-ordonez 10 months

Slowly but surely getting out of my creative rut . . . any tips/advice?

ilikecatsalot 10 months

la/long beach queers what are we doing for halloween and where do i get an invitation?🧍🏾

type.a.hippy 10 months

I need some new are for my gallery wall. Drop your IG/websites! Would love to support Collective artists

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colbymitchell 10 months

Sweat this shit out

lav 10 months

Down the rabbit hole of gay princes. 🥹 💕

valentinobornancini 10 months

everyone drop your favorite gay film recs :)

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