die 10 months

How does “me time” look like for you?

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serenawilliams 10 months

1st goal: make it to monday sober. 🌅 2nd goal: reach day 12 sober — that’s my average streak this year. 3rd goal: stay sober for two full weekends. 4th goal: hit 18 days — my longest streak in adulthood. 5th goal: reach 30 days sober. 💪

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hallen 10 months

Isn't it nice when the sun comes out after the rain? (not metaphorically), soil is wet, smell of the grass, the sun, the green, air is fresh, so good 🌤️🌈

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sierramichhh 10 months

like why am I fully under the blanket but must have my knees sticking out

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jarrodt83 9 months

The goal is to have a productive Sunday.

crazyig 10 months

Any Doctor Who fans out there? Thoughts on what will happen next?

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shg 10 months

Went on a date with this guy, cute, funny, great smile. Ten minutes in, he casually drops, “Yeah, my ex used to bring me here all the time.” I’m like, okay… one mention, fine. Then it turns into, “My ex loved that drink,” “My ex hated that song,” “My ex had that same jacket.” By the end, I felt like his ex deserved half the bill.

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southerncowrie 10 months

Got a skirt for Halloween that is nothing short of matronly so now I gotta cut it to be right below the cheek

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tordde 9 months

where are the fat people

lax 9 months

Off to a hectic Monday 716

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

Made a list of all the things I can’t wait to show my future boyfriend, and I want to cry. 🥹

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curated_by_marc 10 months

“The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.” Excerpt From A Farewell to Arms Ernest Hemingway

aliefesu166 10 months

Any show recommendations???? I love any kind of showss

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xanie 9 months

Does anyone else feel so fucking far behind

josepaw 9 months

Oh ooh, getting a haircut now :(

psychedelicprince 10 months

sometimes the alexa in my living room would go off on its own and start spewing stuff about mental health and wellness.

_mattepio_ 10 months

Alone this weekend, tell me something to watch 🥸

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takudzwa 9 months

Still tryna figure out this damn app 💀

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nateriviere 10 months

what’s everyone being for Halloween 👀

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resonantbody 10 months

Where do you feel connection (with others, a place, a moment, etc.) in your body? Specifically, when energy aligns and it feels good. 😊✨

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avery-ren 10 months

I miss creating art 😣

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theguysacha 10 months

More fashion. Less fascists.

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thotanist 10 months

Not to defend the aristocracy but at LEAST they used to patronise artists, dress cute, and commission public works - these tech bros can’t even be bothered to dress right 😤

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milly 10 months

I mentioned to some girls in Delhi that my earrings are gold and they were absolutely SHOCKED at how ugly and non shiny the gold is hahahahaha “oh no one here would buy gold like that they’re not even shiny”

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gwaread 10 months

Everyone here is like really, really pretty

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wilfy 10 months

took a hot shower, moisturized my body, and sleeping in freshly washed sheets…I better sleep good and wake up rested & feeling amazing!

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tip 9 months

Sigh* my pockets are hurting so bad 😭😭😭

cammie 10 months

Who knew drama school had actual Drama? SHOCKING BEHAVIOUR

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sebastianbosc 9 months

The way you would win me over with a massage

chrisjordan 10 months

For those who have been unexpectedly dumped without reason after a LTR of 2+ years together.. how long did it take to move on or at least wake up and not feel like you’ve lost part of yourself?…And did they ever reach back out to you to explain or apologize? 🫤

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skhathisomusa 9 months

I find myself thinking “no wonder you’re single” about so many people because they are so mean. life is not a devil wears Prada movie, treat people like actual people and not avatars in your scene. makes you ugly in my eyes being mean for no reason.

autumnexpected 10 months

Halloween costume: devil with black wings and horns with a crown of black flowers. So for the gay dance party...is the vibe red or...all black?

tokyoty 9 months

I can’t wait to be in a relationship, i just wanna man that’s honest and who’s skin i can be in🤭

aresdefer 10 months

I’ve decided I’m dying my hair black this time. I’m ready to look like the grudge.

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aresdefer 10 months

Guy I was dating moved countries and didn’t tell me. Fml 😂

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alvarovgg 10 months

Spamming y’all with likes because you deserve it

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havi 10 months

Okay, y’all are my witness. I’m gonna really try n build a healthier life n body. Wish me luck 😵‍💫

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badis 10 months

My sister told me I should just “set your dating apps to 25-30” but there’s so few in Edi 😪😪

lax 10 months

Journaling here my journey to get back up on my feet Timeline : 730 days

sailormars 10 months

Your self perception will change the day you stop thinking for other people. Example: if you keep thinking people find you unattractive that’s what you will experience until you change the thought. Think for yourself

piu-piu 9 months

I want my first child within 10 years

itsjacobedmonds 9 months

I want to celebrate Halloween next year with a boyfriend. 👻🎃

kmns 9 months

i don’t understand how this app works 😭

unboxitabe 9 months

YALL I LEAKED MY SONG😜😜😜

autumnexpected 10 months

And I couldn't help but wonder – fried smoked duck...and tacos

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mikhailgallo 10 months

Is the feeling of impending doom universal? Between the rise of fascism, unbridled climate change, proliferation of AI, and what seems to be a complete lack of empathy around the world, I’m feeling more detached and dejected than ever. The American dream is dead and it feels harder than ever to find a sense of purpose. Can anyone relate? Any tips for maintaining a positive outlook in a dystopian world?

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aphrodite.aphroditus 10 months

If you’re going to exist in anyone’s imagination, may it be your own.

ashlaytee 9 months

Figuring out this app, so bear with!

lovelucy 9 months

In case you don’t know.. ACAB FREE PALESTINE FREE THE CONGO FEED SUDAN ALL MY HOMIES HATE ISREAL DOWN WITH ICE Love youuuuuu ❤️

lav 10 months

japanese stationery makes me so happy

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popstar 9 months

Fluid movements with my heart raging like water 🩰

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