jaig 8 months

Any tips on getting back into gym/workout routine when lacking motivation to do so?

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allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 8 months

So I actually walked up to someone on the street today to get their number!! So proud of myself, because I would NEVER do something like that 😅

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thotanist 8 months

Omg they’re filming spiderman in my town - Tom Holland is close 👀

curated_by_marc 8 months

This is me flirting 😂🤓: “Some gays are so obsessed with huge muscles, trying to look like the next Hulk pumped like balloons that are about to explode. I find body types like yours far more appealing, as they look more athletic. Not to mention that clothes fit better; it is basically the model's body type. I know this because I worked as a fashion photographer. Have a good day ☀️”

milly 8 months

Idk if I’m wrong but has anyone noticed a lot of younger people don’t know a lot of computer basics ? Like I keep having to teach 18-20 year olds basic keyboard shortcuts (like copy paste etc)

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dylannn 8 months

Job Search in London 💼🤯 I’m currently exploring new opportunities in Customer Support / Customer Operations leadership, ideally within SaaS, tech, or customer-centric organisations that value innovation, empathy, and continuous improvement. Please share your thoughts and how you navigated this. Having been made redundant and unemployed since May. I'm finding it difficult!

christianrutherford 7 months

Who wants to take me to build-a-bear 🤞🤣

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psychedelicprince 7 months

if you’ve never been hit with gay allegations, you’re not fly enough.

jbenjamin 8 months

Does Gavin Newsom text anyone else as much as he texts me or…?

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felipe.tx 7 months

Thoughts and prayers are just the pathetic christian version of Sabrina’s I’m so sorry for your loss

justinrossberg 7 months

So is this app just like hot guys only??… cause god damn it’s like scrolling through an art museum

muffyn 7 months

Love a good workout sesh 🫶🏼💅

sailormars 7 months

If you knew me at all, you wouldn’t try to keep me small Let that sink in.

tmj 8 months

La luz que guerrea

jarrodt83 7 months

I’ve met some great people on here. And some people just stop talking. *Looks directly at you*

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wilfy 7 months

I have three out of ten mugs complete. Need lunch. Hate that I feel like throwing up when I’ve only had coffee these past few hours 🫢

malo 8 months

Anyone hiring in marketing in Sydney? I’m your man 💪

josemi 7 months

las amigas que se besan son la mejor compañía

theatergeek33 7 months

“So I throw up my fist, throw a punch in the air And accept the truth that sometimes life isn't fair Yeah, I'll send out a wish, yeah, I'll send up a prayer And finally someone will see how much I care”

joseenriquemrnz 7 months

Yes, I’m looking for you, but I don’t know yet

lax 7 months

I feel old, going out at 11 is challenging 704

shinigabry 8 months

hey, I’m looking for a CDI in communication based in Paris. Don’t hesitate to reach me out if you have any leads :) And I’m pretty fun !

marcelo.l 8 months

Why are moustaches the epitome of manliness and why are they so much better than beards?! I just automatically melt 🫠

hamal 8 months

What’s a good book I should read over the weekend ?

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masc_y_medio 8 months

Learning that if you want community you might need to start creating your own space or asking others to join in!

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serenawilliams 8 months

flu shot symptoms are kicking in ahhhh. this is a night i wish i had a boyfriend lol

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sailormars 8 months

Confusion happens when we avoid the truth that has been laid before us. And because we sugar coat facts we choose to feel confused about how bitter they are on the inside.

juancaabstracto 7 months

AI sh1t in my Collective timeline? Be ffr

rainbowwarrior 8 months

Shout out to the owner of this platform. Our community desperately needed something like this!

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havi 8 months

Curious to hear thoughts on All’s Fair

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milly 8 months

My hatred for Elon Musk knows no bounds.

jaye.zen 8 months

A little text I wrote in the bus last night: I’m fine. Of course I’m fine, I’m always fine. I’m happy you got the girl I wrote two fucking songs about. I would’ve never gotten her anyways. It doesn’t hurt, I knew it wouldn’t work. I’m just a child. It doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t hurt. I don’t hurt. I’m not crying. I’m not frustrated. I know how I’m feeling: fine. Why would I wanna throw my phone on the ground? Why would I wanna rip my skin off? I’m happy for you. I love this for you. I don’t need anyone to hug me. I don’t need anyone to listen to me. Of course I have someone who would. If I was a little heartbroken, you know, hypothetically speaking. But of course I am not. I saw this coming. So I don’t need anyone to listen to me.

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mikevi 8 months

One of the great thing about late night dog walks is, there are never any other dogs out to worry about! They be sleepy hahaha

beachbum 8 months

i’m in a deep dive into mia goth’s movies anyone wana recommend other good psychological horror/thriller movies 🍿

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mazepagustavo 8 months

“There’s a wonderful old Italian joke about a poor man who goes to church every day and prays before the statue of a great saint, begging, “Dear saint—please, please, please… give me the grace to win the lottery.” This lament goes on for months. Finally the exasperated statue comes to life, looks down at the begging man and says in weary disgust, “My son—please, please, please… buy a ticket.”” Elizabeth Gilbert — Eat, Pray, Love

hamal 8 months

My notifications have been blowing up ever since I downloaded this app. Thank you all for all the love ❤️

tannhauserz 8 months

Fellow LGBT guys and girls (and NB) in Russia, how are things there for you RN? Left a year ago, and would be glad to hear how things are going now.

temporaryboyfriend 8 months

when i write love songs, it’s rarely ever about one person in particular. sometimes it’s a fantasy. sometimes it’s an amalgamation of different boys. then one day I met someone who almost seemed to walk right out my own music. my heart fluttered.

mauro. 8 months

Dressing up as a monogamous men for Halloween bcs apparently that shit is scary af 👻

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unboxitabe 7 months

Where are the bears at ☺️

dylpics 8 months

Maybe I am super sheltered in my North American life but how does everyone on Collective know English so well when they are not from English speaking countries? Spelling, grammar, idioms. ✅

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aphrodite.aphroditus 8 months

Learning to be careful with starting the conversation (argument) etc. from the point of departure of the individual doing the work of the oppressor. For the question might not be situated within the framework they are proposing but elsewhere.

giannni 8 months

the new lily allen on repeat

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kalelder 8 months

Any fellow photographers/videographers out there? Would love to connect.

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unboxitabe 8 months

What the one thing you wish was different in the Queer community?

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juanda 8 months

When you live with the heart, you stop negotiating with the sky. You learn courage by drowning, not by floating. I rewind each night midnight becomes a rehearsal of forgetting, the lights go out but my mind keeps sketching worlds that haven’t signed a lease in reality yet. Maybe this is a letter, or a trick to exhaust the ache. Maybe it’s the caffeine in the word maybe that keeps me awake. You said it’s a game of no expectations and I believed you, the way a wave believes the shore will still be there even after breaking a thousand times. I don’t expect you, I just expand into love that doesn’t ask for anything, into the fever of what isn’t convenient. If I could choose, I’d still choose the hard thing, the beautiful mistake that keeps teaching me how to breathe underwater. Because when I live with the heart, I live with courage and courage is the art of staying open while falling apart in style. — Juanda

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nevv 7 months

Let me live beyond every sorrow With body, soul, and heart as one. Oh queen of my thoughts, Teach my spirit how to bloom again. Each day I dream of gentler days, A life of quiet, hopeful light. Do not fade, my cherished vision Stay beside me like the whispering wind. Do not vanish, my beloved dream; Be the breeze that circles me. Come closer still, into my arms Where you were always meant to be

muffyn 8 months

✨Gotta like the bad days, to love the great one✨

temporaryboyfriend 8 months

I was so eager to find love as a teenager. Now that I’m in my 20s I still yearn, but I’m glad I didn’t settle at the first thing I received. Throughout my many failed relationships I picked up a lot of new tastes, discovered artists I never would have stumbled across on my own, and learned how to give into someone despite being from entirely two different worlds. I always say love is a muscle that you have to train. I’m still working on that but the journey has been incredible to say the least. Whoever finds me will find me a better person.

serenawilliams 8 months

slept four hours since i woke up at 6am on friday morning. it’s 2:33am on monday morning. i don’t want to face the feelings of guilt. thinking that i just hit 1 day AGAIN, this is not a victory for me. how many times am i going to start from zero? i dont even have energy to be mad at myself, i’m just exhausted.

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callthemzaddy 8 months

when you start to listen to all the chatter and it doesn’t sound like there is any creative expertise behind “constructive criticism”, all it ever turns out to be is a bully without an imagination

milly 8 months

Girl I love coming on here and being annoying and commenting on everyone’s posts !

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sierramichhh 8 months

It really irks me to send a man a like on hinge 🙄 #biprobs

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