tomasderico 7 months

Them: “You sleep a lot…” Me: “Thanks, it’s depression.”

byjoshjames 8 months

If your state has an election today, PLEASE VOTE! Your voice matters.

sam2bh 8 months

i need a gym buddy to show me what to do (yeah like a free personal trainer)

xanie 8 months

Need some gaymer buddies especially ones who wann play the new REPO update with

psychedelicprince 8 months

today is monday, november 3 2025, and i have one friend who just got engaged and another who got sentenced to jail.

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cosmic_22 8 months

Anyone else excited for Halloween tomorrow

skhathisomusa 8 months

being gay os so much fun

milly 8 months

One of my absolute favourite picture books from when I was little is so fucking niche, expensive and hard to get a copy of. Having weird ass art parents is often a curse (affectionate)

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kiwi.lando 8 months

Who wanna binge a anime or play games?❤️

bamboe 8 months

“ Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, (I am large, I contain multitudes.) ” ♥️

sailormars 8 months

Elegance is intelligence made visible through action

f999 8 months

Anyone or yk anyone who’s selling Lady Gaga tickets for the Mayhem show in Berlin? 😭 #Berlin #LadyGaga

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duplesis 8 months

Sure waves crash, hearts mend, New days spark fiery trends. Chase what fuels your win, Let today dive right in.

saochiang 8 months

One of the grad schools I want to apply to opened up their application submissions two months earlier than planned. I have everything ready, but im absolutely terrified of turning it in… Fingers crossed. 🤞😣

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avery-ren 8 months

I’m trynna befriend a feral cat rn 🥺

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chrisgardener 8 months

Today I went to a gym for the first time in a very long time

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lax 8 months

Had a great time at the calisthenics class 715

unboxitabe 8 months

What’s the first thing you do when you get bored

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arin 8 months

when will I fall in love? And what will it feel like? Maybe when it happens, I’ll finally find a new reason to live. I’ll share all the pain I’ve carried in my heart, I’ll pour all the warmth of my care into him, and in his arms, I’ll build my home. He’ll understand me without words, and I’ll feel him without explanations… Under the shade of stars at night, our eyes will speak everything our lips can’t say. Sometimes, we forget if we can’t live our innocence and playfulness again with the one we love, then what kind of love is that? Let there be laughter, teasing, and little fights… and when tears come, peace should only return in his embrace. Because love isn’t proven by saying “I love you” it’s proven by being there, by walking together, step by step, heart beside heart, until two souls breathe as one. 💖

autumnexpected 8 months

Preferences when making out? I feel like everyone has a strong opinion...🤭

sailormars 8 months

There’s nothing wrong with falling in love, buddy.

ehmulsion 8 months

Exhausted. In a biblical way.

naughtyyzaddy 8 months

Got wrecked like a haunted house last night!!.. 😮‍💨💀

theefreshprince 8 months

I’m trynna listen to almost every genre Drop some songs you like in the comments or the playlist below You might find some you like too so Ill leave some I like

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millatte 8 months

Youre not alone October is national DV awareness month ps my pookie is playing dbd with me because I used my safety plan and reached out so please if you feel alone reach out. Hes making sure im not crying. 🩷🩷🥹🥹

milly 8 months

Idk if I’m just tumblr pilled but didn’t we like low key cancel lily Allen ? Am I making shit up again

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milly 8 months

When did Zohran Mamdani sleep last? Like scrolling TikTok I’ve seen him at a senior centre, 6 different clubs, filming TikTok’s on the street at 2am ???

justin.mchl.gray 8 months

I’ve always been frustrated by the fact that in the wild or even on other social media apps that there is little to no way to know for sure if the people I was seeing or interacting with were gay or not. I’m so glad that now I have a place where I will always know for sure that these are gay men. I’ve craved real connection with people I can understand and relate to in this way my entire adult life and this place makes that WAY easier to seek and find. Thank you so much! How about you all? What do you think so far? Are you making real connections?

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giannni 8 months

y'all have gym nemesis too?

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wilfy 8 months

Seasonal depression’s making me super anxious over being single right now and thinking too much about the future ://///

caylasaysheyya 8 months

The lioness must stop ignoring the pain in her chest

hamal 8 months

I’m updating my playlist — what’s a song you’ve been obsessed with lately?🎵🎵🎹

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tomdcamp 8 months

What’s your definition of a “slət”? Is it always offensive, or has it been reclaimed?

masc_y_medio 8 months

I went to the best party last night! Prob one of my fav halloweens of all time!

masc_y_medio 8 months

One day I would love to host a Gaysgiving or Gaylentines!

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arin 8 months

How does the sense of satisfaction, love, and security truly feel? It’s that moment when you finally have someone you can call mine, someone who makes you feel complete. Every breath, every thought seems to find its way back to him. Your heartbeat rises, your day which wasn’t going well a minute ago suddenly turns bright and joyful. You end your day with only one thought in mind: my man is waiting for me.

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theguysacha 8 months

“Make me laugh” says guy with no humour. “NPNC” says faceless profile. “Be single” says couple looking for a third. Did I miss any?

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tomasderico 8 months

New phone on the way. I’m also changing my personal number to cut down on spam. If we’ve texted before, please message me so I can share the new number. Don’t say I didn’t warn you 🫡

strawbrry 8 months

every so often I get mildly self-conscious about how obsessive I am about Halloween but then I remind myself it’s one of the only times of year I felt comfortable as a kid

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badis 8 months

If I get one more job rejection 😭

lone_wanderer 8 months

Gay Halloween was a marathon 😮‍💨

theguysacha 8 months

Rosalía. That is all.

perseus 8 months

Where are all my trans men at? 🏳️‍⚧️

fleaskinny 8 months

Genuinely wanna hug every single person on here hahahah 🫂🫂🫂🫂 HUGS FOR EVERYBODY

izaakzed 8 months

Oh you can’t find a man? Yeah you’re definitely the problem.

dav212 8 months

Can yous stop judging people and deciding their worth based on looks. K thx 💋

mauriciom 8 months

Anyone down for a Gay book club?

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goodchisme 8 months

Is everyone else getting back into Animal Crossing for the new update

southerncowrie 8 months

LEGO releasing a Mighty Morphin’ set with a megazord. I squealed😆

serenawilliams 8 months

anyone have more ideas on how to continue my sobriety? or if you have maybe gone through the same struggles. at some point i have to stop being a hermit and hang out with friends again… nervous!

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