whatevergio 8 months

going to the university i dreamed and prayed to get into only thinking about how cozy my bed is

muffyn 8 months

In life, we need to stop loosing our minds over people who don’t mind loosing us. 💅🫶🏼

lax 8 months

Had an extremely quiet Monday, in a good mood 709

valentin_xxs 8 months

just spammed 17 posts of curated favourite photos from the last month. enjoy 💛

avatar.isaac 8 months

they don’t warn you in life about how many people take up running as a hobby in adulthood, and I think that’s spooky and people should be warned

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0beron_0restes 8 months

Imagine portraying a trans woman as a cis man, gaining widespread acclaim for the role and an Oscar nomination, but siding with the biggest TERF in the public eye…that’s why cis het actors playing LGBTQ+ characters can be controversial to say the least

xanie 8 months

Trying to put a costume together rn I’m always so last minute 🤭

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nene.pablo 8 months

Anyone on here play tennis? 🎾 (Must know how to at least hit the ball over the net and inside the court lol 🤭)

javocolombian 8 months

Hey everyone l. I’m new here in the uk 🇬🇧 and currently looking for a job in Brighton, London or Bath . I have the right to work and I am bilingual. Feel free to message me if you know any opportunities 🫶

rainbowwarrior 8 months

Sundays are for Sunday dinners with grandma and good o’ Zeus Sundays at night 🥰

b.mitc01 8 months

hand on the throttle, thought I caught lightning in a bottle

legomanks 8 months

How does a small country boy in KC find love or friendship ?

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unboxitabe 8 months

What’s that one song that is stuck in your head

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gavinakagriffin. 8 months

I have a question, I just had my second gay club experience it was really good. Other then struggling with social anxiety, and I don’t really know how to approach guys I find attractive. Any advice on how to approach gay guys at clubs for getting to know reasons, and form a potential relationship. I could use, under the unfortunate circumstances.

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izaakzed 8 months

Al no sentirte carente de nada, lo atraes todo ✨

bradenmac 8 months

Just came out to my parents, and ofc they already knew. Somehow ended up being the hardest yet easiest thing I’ve ever done. I can finally exhale after almost 30 years 🏳️‍🌈

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xanie 8 months

Been protecting my peace by only evening on my phone for 2 hrs a day. Missed all of you gorgeous people though 🫩

milly 8 months

I love movies but not in a new releases way (cinemas make me extremely anxious so I just watch old DVDs)

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locke-e 8 months

They Say: There’s no rush to love Just long nights Read texts And missed dates.

winemilf69 8 months

I need a third space social media where I can just shit post one liners

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bryan-tino 8 months

Hearing a guy call me a good boy does things to my brain that i can’t explain.

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st-thomas 8 months

scrolling through halloween costumes, in 3, 2, 1 ...

gavinakagriffin. 8 months

Anyone else here struggle with PTSD or CPTSD? Asking from the perspective of someone who has CPTSD along with trust issues and has always struggled with identity do to social upbringing. If anyone here has PTSD or CPTSD, how do you heal or feel better emotionally? I haven’t been great mentally do to recent economy, and I’m just fed up with negativity. There is to much of it and it’s throwing me off balance even when I do breathing exercises or affirmations. Any advice would be appreciated.

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rainbowwarrior 8 months

It’s giving ealry 2000’s social media and I love it 😍🥰

_milies 8 months

expect less and you’ll get more. expect nothing then anything is a blessing

itsbayyy12 8 months

Im so done with dating! i think i dont have luck anymore on dating. will be stay with the cats, dogs and goats 🥲

vale 8 months

What are the chances?! The guy I was texting who said he was coming to Budapest soon but ghosted me for like 3–4 weeks, suddenly posts stories of himself actually in Budapest! 😭 I was this close to convincing myself he was just an AI influencer with too many followers and suspiciously good selfies… but no, he’s real. He’s here. In my city. And still hasn’t texted me. 💀😂

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bradenmac 8 months

Londoners, where are the best (gay 💅🏻) Halloween parties this weekend? 👻

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axl 8 months

There’s so much temptation with just running away.

amarig 8 months

Not me waking up early to be productive, then bed rotting till my normal wake up time 😭

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serenawilliams 8 months

i don’t think any more mental acrobatics can convince me to enjoy 8:00 on a sunday workouts.

arin 8 months

Whatever happens, you know you have his back and he has yours, mentally, physically, and emotionally. The confidence you feel when he’s beside you is beyond words. When the outer world feels harsh and confusing, he steps in and reminds you that you matter. That your existence matters. Your smile matters. Your thoughts matter. In the eyes of the world, you may be just another face, but in his eyes, you are his universe, the reason he breathes, the reason he feels joy and emotional peace. The days that once felt empty now hold meaning, simply because you get to spend them with him. The nights that were once anxious and lonely, when you hugged your pillow just to feel a hint of belonging, now end in his arms, wrapped in love and care. Years pass, seasons change, yet that smile, the one that makes you feel fulfilled, remains the same. You sit together in the courtyard, sipping evening tea, talking about the day you met. Or sometimes, you just sit in silence, admiring each other’s eyes, sharing love without words as birds sing, the breeze cools your skin, and the warmth of his breath reminds you that home isn’t a place. It’s a him.

curated_by_marc 8 months

“Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the universe.” Albert Einstein

justinkb 8 months

Where are all the gay Seattle hiphop/rnb clubs?! Always looking for more friends to go out with🙈

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kalelder 8 months

So many hot boys on here. Say hi!

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jvrmed 8 months

For all the monsters out there, I’m selling an Early Entry VIP ticket for Lady Gaga’s concert in Barcelona on the 31st. If you’re interested, let me know!

strawbrry 8 months

when you spend a single day with your family and can trace a clear path to the root of all your own bullshit

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giogooo 8 months

Just wondering if you have any tips for vegetarians/ vegans that would love to gain some healthy weight or muscles.

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marco_beau 8 months

My life would be so much better if I owned a casserole dish 🥘

bryan-tino 8 months

Oh but darling to not dance when you had the health and could hear the music…..well, that could be the biggest regret of your life.

clownpup 8 months

found out how to get weird men to leave you alone: when they ask for pics, ask them for money 🥳 they block you really quickly afterwards and just weed themselves out

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morgan_ 8 months

I have a fashion show I am walking for tomorrow and the imposter syndrome is so real. I feel lucky to get a chance like that as a 35yo data viz nerd! I hope I don’t let the designer down.

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lav 8 months

My life is cinematic.

hearteyes 8 months

No one is answering my job applications so i blocked gracie abrams

jamesiii 8 months

Idk what data Cal has on me, but Collective’s “you might like” suggestions are clocking me real bad

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carlosphth 8 months

Is it the spooky season an important event for LGBT+ community? What do you guys think about it?

jakemys 8 months

Does anyone else not understand Addison Rae as an artist?

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bryan-tino 8 months

I think it’s crazy to start off a relationship without being friends first for a while.

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sailormars 8 months

Say no to bare minimum. You deserve more

lax 8 months

Felt unproductive even though, I’ve done all the chores needed for the weekend 712

curated_by_marc 8 months

"Hurt an artist and you'll see masterpieces of what you've done"

shaunlbvs 8 months

Tomorrow’s Halloween! What are all the men dressing by up as? I’m going to be male Elphaba! Drop yall pics tomorrow too!

unboxitabe 8 months

Halloween is this Friday !!! What are the plans?

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