milly 4 months

Just remembered how after I graduated I added my art teacher on Facebook and she was just mad fkn racist. Like why in fuck did she accept my friend request? Dead ass just being racist on main and adding her ex students I guess.

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marygladyshevaa 4 months

may everyone experience what im feeling right now with the most wholesome and adorable person on this planet. Like is she even real? it feels like an angel has fallen on earth for me. thank you, universe

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neelz 3 months

What DJ sets have you been listening to on SoundCloud lately?

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views.by.jan 3 months

the deepest love is the one you give to yourself.

moor 4 months

It is SA awareness month. My heart is tender and my strength is coming to me through every single survivor who’s walking planet earth with me. I believe you. Im here for you.

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samueegomeez 3 months

i need to find other artists and talk about our art!!! I need to make friends with artists in general ❤️‍🔥📕🫧🎨💐🖼️🪜

sierramichhh 3 months

I feel like Ive been in my luteal phase for 3 yearsss LETS WRAP THIS UP

statmanthom 4 months

A reminder that it’s totally possible to feel completely alone, even if you have a great social net, friends and supportive family. Addressing those feelings is vital to maintaining good mental health.

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collective 4 months

It’s Lesbian Visibility Week, U-Haulers! Now is the perfect time to make more sapphic friends. This week celebrates our diversity, and as the community shows up for one another, it is a great chance to catch one or two to add to your roster of friends. If you are partnered or not looking to date, finding a new circle can feel like a challenge. With 60% of lesbian bars having closed recently, traditional ways of meeting are shifting. The community remains resourceful. DIY events are popping up worldwide. From Justin Bieber look-alike contests to masc nights and sports leagues like soccer or softball, these niche spaces offer high energy for building community. They are the perfect way to meet people who share your frequency without dating pressure. Collective acts as the digital mess hall for this global campground of queers. It is a queer-run social platform for meeting new people based on shared interests rather than swipes. The app helps members take conversations offline and find their tribe. To find queer women this week, use the Women filter in the Browse People section. Remember to set your intentions to friends when following new people to keep the vibes clear.

zayuh 4 months

went on a date last night and he told me he recently discovered he was avoidant LMAO plsss should i run ? 😭

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kieltutin 3 months

the sun came back out in LA, everything is good again

mrtheodorstrom 3 months

”Like boats against the current, we struggle forward and are constantly driven back to the past” - The great Gatsby

donovan.dona 3 months

I just remembered I have free will and the limit is set by none other than myself

kacperb 3 months

Any ambient song reccoms?

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lukapuka 3 months

Why do older gays like the younger gays?👀

milly 3 months

My mum really wants me to start playing violin again (I quit after 12 years when I was 18 but idk might give it ago ig)

shinblue 4 months

'War' hits harder when your reflection in the mirror resembles it, and when the battle in your homeland, miles away, intertwines with you inner turmoil, no escape remains. You find comfort in watching your soul bleed. You are now used to the smell of blood, because no matter how far you run, war never leaves you.

views.by.jan 3 months

listening to live concerts during workout is such a gamechanger, love it

southerncowrie 3 months

Should I watch Princess Mononoke or Homecoming?

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marygladyshevaa 3 months

find yourself someone who lights up your day by only hearing a note from their voice

sailormars 4 months

I think the healthiest thing you can do when you don’t feel attractive, nor chosen, nor seen. To stop looking for validation externally in the forms of complains towards dating, society, life. I see it in the community when people make comments about how people behave in dating apps, or how people are in general. And I find it kind of funny. We have such easy to hurt egos that when someone says no we hide in a corner and shrink ourselves, blaming the world. Hahaha… I think once you accept no one owes you presence, love, security, nor being chosen you truly become free.

lukapuka 3 months

WHY IS MONOGAMOUS DATING SO RARE?!!!

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views.by.jan 3 months

The energy we spend running after people could be soo much better be invested in ourselves. But still we run, again and again.

milly 4 months

Rarely get my period so it’s super fun when I go to work and be visibly angry and crash out for 10 hrs a day every few months.

phrancism 4 months

: I heard a song when I was four-years-old. A guitar thrusting powerful chords, Donna Summer belting, yearning for a lover; a four-on-the-floor rhythm that drove energy into everyone’s feet. I knew little then, but still at that age I learned how naturally my body responded to a heavy bass, an electrifying melody, and the pleasure that could bring me; how easily the sight of others moving too could well me up with contagious joy. It would be nearly thirty years til I’d hear that song again in a crowded room filled with strangers, hundreds of us singing along, dancing to the very same track that taught me the power of music. I’m sure all those people had experienced what I had before, and a whole generation before me too. All of us discovering joy at a young age and finding it again in a place where we could all be free. We felt it rushing through our veins. It’s been coursing there since we were four-years-old. The chorus began: Donna Summer looking for a lover and a guitar cutting somewhere deep within us. We let our souls bleed out on the dance floor, and everywhere it was disco, disco, disco.

msstar 3 months

Si funciona esto para conocer gente o no? 🧐

p.ierre 3 months

Attractive men with cheap mirrors 😔

tomasderico 3 months

Any #LeagueofLegends | #LoL fans on here🤓👀 I main Trundle, Lillia, Nunu & Willump, Annie, Ziggs, Miss Fortune, LuLu, & Sona 🫡🫡

clownpup 3 months

gonna be queer and in love this summer and it’s gonna be bountiful and pleasant and fiery and passionate and calming and loving and reciprocated and everything i hoped and wished for

sierramichhh 3 months

Met monday is my favorite monday

dayegee 3 months

Cause she thinks holy shit, I don’t love her Cause I chose loneliness for both of us

roboo 3 months

Anyone feels like the hotter you get, the sadder your life is? Is it a consequence or do you just lock in as a result of feeling down?

elixvas 3 months

up late thinking about how much i love Addison Rae

sierramichhh 3 months

Camp in 2019 gave me extremely high hopes and they flopped today sorry no shade #notsorry

gbor 3 months

Baby, now I'm ready, moving on Oh, but maybe I was ready all along Oh, I'm ready for the moment and the sound Oh, but maybe I was ready all along

milly 4 months

Genuinely pisses me the fuck off how most men react to the mention of twilight. If that shit was never marketed to teen girls I recon they’d eat it up too.

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lav 3 months

Celebrity is a concept art

donovan.dona 3 months

i could be your boyfriend when I'm feeling down

studiokervo 4 months

Watching interstellar for the first time…excited since I loveeee / post apocalyptic sci-fi….i’ll keep you guys updated..I can’t believe I never seen this ?? When I tell you everything about it is right up my alley

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studiokervo 3 months

I’m sorry but I’m not taking fashion critique from anybody with zero personal style who doesn’t take risks…literally everything you know about fashion has been told to you by someone like me…you’re BASIC!!!

jjgmclean 4 months

all I ever want is for my gym crush to ask me for a drink. We lock eyes multiple times when we’re at gym at the same time. I am certain we’d have nothing in common but it would be very nice to be asked out for once :)

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havi 4 months

I’ve never felt so seen until now. When the engineer on my team says he feels bad for me, given that I have the 2 “projects from hell” and the worst ones in the office. He just validated that all this shit isn’t me, but the projects 🤧

shearpaint 3 months

Do people even date anymore?

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