tempson 1 month

Oh, you thought you nailed that interview? Just kidding. We even asked salary questions. But just wanted to call and say we’re turning you down because the straight of Hormuz. Yeah, that’s right. I said the straight of Hormuz. Even though we have nothing to do with crude oil. Even though we’re a design agency. Yeah. Suck my fat one. - to a bunch of Cucks

kings_world 1 month

Very emotional and hellacious week but nonetheless we prevail~ this Gemini moon is fickle especially since I’m a Gemini moon. How has it been for you?

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udonomii 1 month

Two melanated babes blew their horn just to tell me I looked amazing. More of this please

mikevi 1 month

Its sort of crazy, figureing out that I be gay has Deffinantly helped me find the confidance to try different types of clothing. THERE ARE SO MANY DIFFERENT TYPES OF CLOTHING ITS CRAZY! Im goina try some “Harem pants” and see if those are as fun as they look!

marc_ 1 month

You should remember there are people in awe of the things you do.

allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 1 month

Another long distance lover found a boy in their own town. I’m very happy for him, truely, he is such a beautiful person and deserves all the romance and love. But oh it’s still so so so bittersweet 😮‍💨❤️‍🩹

allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 1 month

I’m so sick and tired of men saying they’re afraid to date me because I’m intimidating?? What a lame excuse, step the fuck up! (I’m really a sensitive soft boy 🥺)

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loveandrewandjordan 1 month

Also on TikTok under the same name if you wanna see our mini vlogs and support us there too! 😘

mikevi 1 month

Yeah, so if you Realllllly like baggy super loose fitting pants that will basically remind you of “walking around in basically nothing but a bed sheet” harem pants, baloon pants, call them whatever, but Hell yeah! Comfy like no other!

studiokervo 1 month

I’ve been wanting to grow a big “stranded on an island” beard but I’m not actually stranded on any island so looking disheveled & unkempt for 6+ months to obtain the look never quite works for me…

sierramichhh 1 month

I hate when people stay with one airpod in at all times..take that shit out

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die 1 month

validation comes from within.

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insolitaryruin 1 month

it's bizarre to me a lot of visual art students i interact with have an understanding of writing as this linear, reducible, say-what-you-mean medium they're heroically not doing

milly 1 month

Always thinking about the time an Aussie prime minister went for a swim and we just never fkn found him again. Missing to this day. Presumed dead at sea. Named a swimming pool after him.

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lab 1 month

Just finished Desperate Housewives 👀❤️‍🔥 I need a NEW show to binge (old or new)

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p.ierre 1 month

Is it crazy to say that Marnie Cromwell was a superhero?

thotanist 1 month

Very much hoping to see NO Eurovision posts this weekend - not while it’s being used to queerwash a genocide

paulpaulpaul 1 month

Do you feel like your appearance defines your sense of self worth - especially physical appearance?

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collective 1 month

Voulez-vous [learn another language] avec moi? Learning a language on an app with a judgmental owl will only get you so far. While digital lessons help with the basics, real fluency in friendship happens when you put yourself out there and start spouting nonsense to native speakers. To truly understand a new culture, you need to learn how to flirt, dish the dirt, and navigate the slang that only the queer community uses. Whether you are thinking of moving to a new city or just want to break your social bubble, learning a language is a powerful creative challenge. It sparks new ideas for your work and gives you a fresh perspective to express yourself. Collective allows you to browse members in cities across the globe for free to find people who match your frequency and interests, or even teach you how to unpack familial trauma in their native tongue. By using the Location Search feature, you can find native speakers in your own city for a low stakes coffee and language swap. It turns a solitary task into a networking and connecting opportunity. Duo, we love you, but we will finally learn how to ‘pop pussy’ in Dutch and ‘slay the boots house down’ in Korean.

hmln_leo 1 month

Spent the weekend with my ex, he‘s moving back to NZ. And now I know for sure this chapter is closed

coveppo 1 month

Found out a friend of a friend is making 200k per month on OF and that’s was just my ticket invitation

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perseus 1 month

I just want someone who will call me a good boy when I save the plastic to be recycled when throwing out spoiled food.

arch3r 1 month

Where are the regular average gays .. not models or like the ones with a dad bod

sameshane 1 month

I like terrorizing (see: send gay memes & videos) to straight friends to test the waters every couple of months/years

jesse-lee 1 month

I got nominated for at the NJ MODA Week for the EMERGING DESIGNER OF THE YEAR award 🥇 thank you to all who have voted for me so far—it means a lot 🥹 this journey has been a hard one but equally a beautiful experience. It is always good to be recognized for your hard work.

joshuavilorio 1 month

Sometimes I forget to do nothing without intention

jcasx 2 months

Currently watching The L Word for the first time…need someone to have some discourse with on my feelings about it so far 👀

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sierramichhh 1 month

Thought I looked cute during my in-person meeting today so I decided to take a photobooth pic bc of course, I turned the volume down just to discover it still dings at full volume even when muted🙃 my coworkers dont even be shocked anymore bc im always on some bs at this point😭😭😭

justkp 1 month

Went out for a wholesome little day trip and, unsurprisingly, came back with another piercing in a location not currently visible to the general public 😂 Think the dopamine and adrenaline spike also convinced me that a round trip across East Lancashire was a perfectly reasonable idea for a Sunday afternoon 🤣

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milly 1 month

I’ve had a buzzcut for so long that I just don’t think I can grow it out at this point. Haircut to engrained in who I am now.

elixvas 1 month

free me from the shackles of retail

clownpup 1 month

i’ve been getting touched and kissed and praised on so lovingly and invitingly and understandingly and i just know everything is gonna get better cause it literally just gets better

icronicusername 1 month

Where all the tall lanky nerd boys at

aidos 2 months

If all your exes had to form a girl group, what would their group name be—and what kind of music would they make?

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collective 2 months

Sit down, we need to talk … about the Met Gala! Met Monday is here and the fashion queers are in high gear. With the 2026 Met Gala theme announced as Costume Art, the steps of the Metropolitan Museum of Art transform for the dress code: Fashion Is Art. This year feels particularly legendary as Vogue welcomes Beyoncé back to the red carpet as a co-chair alongside Nicole Kidman, Venus Williams, and Anna Wintour. What are we most excited for? Watching the Met Gala with friends? Appreciating the archival deep dives and avant-garde risks? The Met Gala shouldn’t be watched alone through snippets on social media. It should be watched with friends on the couch with wine alla ‘Gay Guy Music Video Night’ style. Whether you want to discuss the host committee featuring Sam Smith and Angela Bassett or debate the creative vision of Anthony Vaccarello and Zoë Kravitz, having a dedicated space for fashion lore makes the night better. Gather your creative tribe on Collective and pop those critic shades on. Let’s gather, comment below to find people who care about the Met Gala as much as you ;)

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littledrew 1 month

Cuddles and an adventure with someone sounds nice

sophjpg 1 month

hi hello lil gays <3 looking for new friends rn, especially local (& to go to pride with)! also looking for dates, but that’s besides the point for this post pros: kinda funny, shares 🍃, will probably cook for you & has great music taste imo, extremely leftist and very gay cons: will send 777 reels in one day if i have the time, will talk too much about anything & everything i’m passionate about, also will start singing mid-convo if something said triggers a lyric memory anyways hmu if we share interests & you don’t mind a bit of a night owl yapper :)

xandermar 2 months

So I noticed I always pace around the house while I’m on the phone… and got me curious as to why people do that… A search online brought these results: 1. The "Visual Void" Compensation 2. Cognitive Boosting 3. Emotional Regulation 4. Gestural Displacement “Fun Fact: This is also why many people find it easier to brainstorm while walking. The physical act of movement literally "unlocks" creative pathways in the brain.” Makes perfect sense to me… can you think of another reason?

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roddy 1 month

For the ones that have missed me in New York www.neo-studios.de/icff2026

lexxxiexotik 1 month

11:26pm is still technically taco 🌮 Tuesday

jcasx 1 month

In desperate need of a fluffy haired masc, with a golden retriever personality in my life 🗝️

dylpics 2 months

RAYE’s new album, “This Music May Contain Hope.” is the best album I’ve heard in over a decade. I can’t remember the last time I listened to an entire album because I couldn’t stop listening. She’s an incredible storyteller! I hear Amy, Adele, Florence but also a sound that’s uniquely her (yet familiar); simultaneously 1926 and 2026. I can’t describe it. Obsessed.

southerncowrie 1 month

Cool down is one of my favorite songs from Ari Lennox’s album

studiokervo 2 months

Okay so this post might be too real for this platform & I’m pretty sure it’s cause I’m balls deep in the heaviest grief I’ve ever experienced…but I’ll get in a bad mood and it just lasts DAYSZzzz….

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avatar.isaac 1 month

Dogs are overrated as pets, like I want a pet squirrel

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julien_ 1 month

We just wanna b*te with friends 😌

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avatar.isaac 1 month

Loved a tree so much I let it go, so it can grow at its own pace. I wish that wasn’t the case

ehmulsion 1 month

A client at work told me my voice was calming and soothing and it took me off guard 🥲 it was easily the nicest thing I've ever heard, especially with sometimes being so self conscious about how I sound 😭

coveppo 1 month

vou parar de usar esse app pq tá chegando o verão na europa e eu não quero ter depressão

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